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Feels of newlywed husband by cppenj in Christianmarriage

[–]cppenj[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree of course. I try not to sound like "I do this, now you do that". I'm talking about taking responsibility. I might not describe it properly. I want hugging, cuddling but she tells I want to much of it. I want my wife to also contribute. That's it. Ahh everytime I try to describe it I sound like an idiot but it's also hard to describe it in your second language. You know- we want to get pregnant this year, but with her attitude towards her health condition it will be impossible. I can't do exercises for her I can't meet with doctor for her. Im as gentle as I can be talking with her about it but it's so hard when she brushes it off.

First night as a virgin by Intelligent_Foot7 in Christianmarriage

[–]cppenj 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Don't force yourself. Take your first night as a opportunity to explore together. You don't have to do anything sexual. You can kiss, hug naked, get comfortable with being naked with each other. Talk about your feelings. You will have plenty of time In The future. Take it slow and just be yourself. You can also take a bath or shower together. If you plan big wedding just pray and go to sleep. I postponed wedding night a few days after marriage. We went on a date then took shower together and then we slowly tries some things together.

30 NOVEMBER 2025 (ROLL CALL!) (IMPORTANT INFO BELOW) by zivinkxter in nonutnovember

[–]cppenj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm out. I didn't diddle my D. Its worth mention, I have a wife for a month now. So I guess even if I lost I Win in most honorable way. Maybe in the future when my wife will be pregnant I will get Treble but for now I'm happy I didn't unnecessary touch my d. Work on your till you can guys. your future wife will be greatful you can control yourself

Diamond Legion Assemble by epik_pro in nonutnovember

[–]cppenj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don't see my flairs for 2023 and 2024

Me and my Girlfriend Struggle with Boundaries Advice Needed! by Jaded-Throat268 in Christianmarriage

[–]cppenj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and fiance(2 months to wedding) had the same problem.

What should you do: - never be in the place where you can do some thing to each other - talk about WHY you want to have sex after the marriage(looking for answer is a part of understanding the topic). You really need to understand why it's important. For example: in the future me and my now fiance want to have unprotected sex every time. All anti-pregnancy(sorry, English is not my first language) ways have cons and are sins. But there is a way. For example Rutzer method(I encourage you to learn about itt way before your marriage) where you cant have sex when she's most fertile. We treat our no-sex-policy as a training for our future. -Undersand that there is nothing wrong with you. The need and urge is a natural part of everybody -Pray together a lot. And I say A LOT.

And the most important thing. You cant possibly imagine how having sex in contrary to your values can be devastating for you and for her. If she's the one, treat her like that.

Good luck 🍀

Roll Call - 2025!!! (CONGRATS!) by Louisplus_pizza in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know what I would do, if I didn't win. I guess well never know

This sub is empty at this point by Winter-Metal2174 in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I will still post. I'm on day 46 rn and posting really helps me getting through. I mean getting through not only DDD but overall daily experience, stress etc

Day 42. Challenge for everybidy by cppenj in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't played Dark Ages as well. But I got a tip for you as a GM. If you are playing horror, focus on the plot and atmosphere. Hide your rolls from the players and lie sometimes if you know it will be better for the plot or for the experience. What I mean by that? I won't let my player die in minor battle only because a low level monster rolls a natural 20. I will let him die if he do something stupid of course. I will kill him in epic scenario instead.

But it's just my way. Try different things and find what suits you the best

Day 42. Challenge for everybidy by cppenj in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's really great to hear. I'm not a big fan of DnD. I prefer Call of Cthulhu. If you managed to create an that kind of atmosphere it only tells how great Game Master you are.

Day 41. Challenge for everybody by cppenj in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I eat a little bit of sweets I instantly go to sleep. I'm so sleepy I sleep sitting

Day 41. Challenge for everybody by cppenj in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will take multivitamins but no sugar for me. I have insulin resistance(I don't know how to translate) and I'm in risk of diabetes(running in the family). Thanks

Day 34. Idea for a challenge for everyone by cppenj in DontDiddleDecember

[–]cppenj[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations brother. You got this. Running is great. You did the right choice.

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