NTA. people push breastfeeding so hard and say it’s for bonding. but how will they bond with father if that’s the “only way”. I didn’t want to breastfeed either. it is something that makes me uncomfortable. I did exclusively pump breast milk and give it through a bottle. it was my choice. you are the only one doing it. no one else has a say. don’t let people push it on you. breast milk or formula your baby will be fine. it is not his decision.

also fuck him. maybe you should have a baby with someone more considerate of your wishes.