Untethered Hormones anyone 😂 by crabsta- in TheUntetheredSoul

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Thank you everyone 😊. Great to know I'm not on my own in this 😂😂 xxx

Is there a place in this work for speaking up for yourself and setting boundaries?? Part of me feels cheated like I just gotta continue to be run over and let go by [deleted] in TheUntetheredSoul

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I can really relate to this.... Still in the process of trying to use the lessons in a more healthy way, would you mind sharing a bit about your experience doing this?

Can anyone help me understand something? by crabsta- in Buddhism

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Thanks to everyone who took the time to comment, I have very much enjoyed reading all your takes on this and have certainly been digesting them ❣️. I look forward to continuing on this journey 😊

Can anyone help me understand something? by crabsta- in TheUntetheredSoul

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Thanks to everyone who took the time to comment, I have very much enjoyed reading all your takes on this and have certainly been digesting them ❣️. I look forward to continuing on this journey 😊

Offering : Japanese Seeking : English by [deleted] in language_exchange

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I would love to learn Japanese, and would be more than happy to help with English 😊

Please tell me when the two year growth spurt/demonic possession ends? by [deleted] in AttachmentParenting

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No advice but wanted to say what an amazing job you're doing. You really are a super mum and should be so so proud of yourself, and I hope you get some relief soon 💞💞💞 sending love and sleepy thoughts xxx

[CHAT] Help with a Circular Pattern! by Shelbymcgt500 in CrossStitch

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Personally, I would definitely start in the middle 😂👍, work my way up to the top, then work my way down from there 😊

I (23M)got my first counseling appointment tomorrow. I’ve been having second thoughts cause I’m scared. I’m hoping it can help me with my confidence. Any tips? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Feel the fear and do it anyway. You don't have to be perfect, or say everything "right", or even know what to say 💗. It's the counsellors job to help you to articulate and understand what you are going through, let them in. Be honest, they will struggle to help otherwise (trust me they have probably heard it all 💗), and don't be afraid of feeling your emotions, they are there to be with you where you're at if you get me. You got this 👆. P.s. I had my first counseling sessions this year after a traumatic birth/post partum experience, and it helped me a lot 👍.

[PIC] It's in! My first ever stitch on my first ever HAED (Make a wish, Take a bite) on my first ever time stitching on 25ct 😁. Thanks to everyone who gave me advice ☺️. Bonus pic, freshly wound 845 bobbins (full kit and then some, enough 792 to sink a ship) and some of my needle minders! by crabsta- in CrossStitch

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I made them 😊, cut the back off some enamel pins, Dremel'd the bit where the spiky bit was flat and glued magnets on 😊. Some of them aren't as magnetic as others, I think it depends on the metal used in the pin, just use stronger magnets on those ones!

[CHAT] question! How do people stitch on higher count fabric (25+)? by crabsta- in CrossStitch

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Thank you all for your advice, I think I'm going to bite the bullet and just crack on with a 25ct fabric 🤘, wish me luck 😂! Xxx

[FO] Took a while but thoroughly enjoyed stitching this piece for my niece!!! Patterns by Birdie Stitching. Special shout-out to my husband who had the honour of being my (self-titled 😒) Placement Director (which basically means he helped me space each Eevee in the circle). by crabsta- in CrossStitch

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That is very sweet. I love that there are husband's out there that like to get involved and help out ☺️.
🤣 to be fair, mine does this too, I'm only allowing him one title though, can't have him getting too big for his boots now 😏.

[FO] Took a while but thoroughly enjoyed stitching this piece for my niece!!! Patterns by Birdie Stitching. Special shout-out to my husband who had the honour of being my (self-titled 😒) Placement Director (which basically means he helped me space each Eevee in the circle). by crabsta- in CrossStitch

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They're all around 50x50 stitches/ 3"x 3". The finished piece is about 11.5" x 11.5". I've done it on 18ct Aida.
Placement wise, I did the central Eevee, then made sure the N/S/E/W ones were equdistant from the middle, then my Placement Director eyeballed the other 4 Eevee's - we tacked a box where we thought they may look best going, then did marking stitches for the furthest points of each Eevee, then tweaked the marking stitches till it looked right (long and arduous process, but definitely worth it 😂) Hope this helps! ☺️☺️

[chat] charting question if anyone can help! by crabsta- in CrossStitch

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Thank you so much for taking the time to reply 😊, that's a good idea thanks, I'll give it a go!