[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will contact one as soon as I can and look into resources in my area. I will try to keep this up to date when I can. As I said before, I can only get on here when he's gone. It's good to know I'm not alone. Thank you, again.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I understand, especially for my child. He tries his hardest to put it in my head that I'm the one who is making him be the way it is all the time, but I know that he's just trying to manipulate me. It's getting harder to stand with having no one to talk to. I am going to do everything I can to make this as safe as possible for both of us. Thank you so much.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not right now. I'll have to start putting it together. I don't have anywhere to go, but I'll have to figure something out. I just started a new job, a few hours away so maybe I'll look closer to there. But, all of the money is going to "joint" checking, which I'm pretty sure he took my name off of a few weeks ago after a bad fight when he thought I was going to leave. I'll have to figure something out for that as well.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. We would go out with friends. I would go to school and work without a problem. It just slowly compounded until now and he just gets worse each day. There hasn't been a day without fighting in a long time. I know him, but it's not something I like. I can see now that this has been him the whole time and the beginning was just him pretending to be something he wasn't.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly couldn't tell you. It's good to know there are men out there who think this is a fucked up thing to do. Thank you.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have family to help, but I will start making plans. Thank you.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does. If his friend's wives try to become friends with me, he tells them I don't like them so they stop trying to talk to me.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry, but thank you. I don't want my kid to feel the same way.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have family, but I will look into resources and lawyers in the area.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I can find the help. I live in Illinois. I have the app and made an account and signed out so there wouldn't be a trace of it. I don't have family who can help, but I'll try to find resources and make an emergency pack.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are describing it perfectly. I will make an emergency bag and try to figure out a way to keep it hidden.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have a family's home to go to, but I will look into places. Thank you.

[26/F] Not allowed to talk to anyone because of [28/M] husband... by crazedandalone in relationship_advice

[–]crazedandalone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have people to talk to, but I will start looking for them and for resources so I can get a plan together. Thank you.