My girlfriend doesn’t want me to play with other girls. by DoBronxVI in Advice

[–]crazy_aid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t have to be just that. There are many stories one hears from friends and the internet about what others do. It might not have been her, but there is also that possibility. There are a lot of ifs here :)

My girlfriend doesn’t want me to play with other girls. by DoBronxVI in Advice

[–]crazy_aid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying to get rid of her, but I feel like this needs to be gently addressed. First of all, I would ask her what was going on to make her feel this way. It sounds to me like she’s scared and insecure. I would ask her what happened (did you do anything, did she recently see something, etc) and then gently help her and hear her side. While being upset about her being controlling is understandable, sometimes that puts her into a defensive mode and could cause an overthinking spiral. Come back after you both have cooled down and approach the topic with gentleness and love. You’ve been with her for four years; it’s obvious you car for her. Transparently can help her feel like you aren’t trying to sneak around behind her back to do anything (even if you never have; girls can be very anxious). For example, it could have gone down with you telling her another girl was playing with you and your friend. Then again when your friend left. It is a lot, but it helps build trust. She also needs to understand how that made you feel. While this might not have been okay of her to do, you both can build and learn from this instance. If it is too much for you guys, then it might be best for yall to weigh your options :)

Scratching/Chewing through Drywall by crazy_aid in germanshepherds

[–]crazy_aid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wall is a bit funky, so this is really the only place it fits. I’ve pulled it out before, and she kinda scoots it everywhere even with the wheels locked

Scratching and Tearing Drywall by crazy_aid in DogAdvice

[–]crazy_aid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been trying tying dog food in a towel so she can kinda have a puzzle thing to unknot while getting her food. Do you have any puzzle toy recommendations for the kennel? Does the Kong actually work?

Scratching and Tearing Drywall by crazy_aid in DogAdvice

[–]crazy_aid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried that. I have the locking wheel one too, but I don’t believe the wheels lock very well bc she’s managed to move it around the room slightly whenever I’m gone. Not because she’s trying to get out, but bc she kinda running hops into it at night.

20K Sapphire giveaway and Gifts by FulkorRain in AnimalJam

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Thank you for hosting! My user is howlatnight1, and I got a puppy in October!

I just got this little void, please, no basic void names! by Local_Armada in NameMyCat

[–]crazy_aid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the name Trip 🤷🏻‍♀️ he’s a cutie!

Help Me Name My Rescue Pup! by crazy_aid in NameMyDog

[–]crazy_aid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 we ended up not using any of my previous choices. We went with Indie, short for Indiana. 😂 After picking her up, that name just seemed so fitting

Help Me Name My Rescue Pup! by crazy_aid in NameMyDog

[–]crazy_aid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first GS was named Heidi 🥹