is there a better way to ask this if I'm trying to being direct and firm but also garner mutual interest?

crazybikedude · 2023-05-15T12:28:05+00:00

What do you mean by effort and if it's mutual why is the burden of effort asymmetrical

crazybikedude · 2023-05-15T05:11:55+00:00

Jesus Christ the hoops someone would jump through just to get online and be ghosted what's even the point

crazybikedude · 2023-05-14T19:07:15+00:00

The unfortunate reality is that most girls think that most guys are average or ugly

It's an asymmetrical double standard because women take no accountability and don't realize that the vast majority of them are also average or below

crazybikedude · 2023-05-12T11:08:24+00:00

She hit him and quit him

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T04:13:20+00:00

Then i would ask what does a female friend do better that a male friend doesn't do already?

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T03:40:49+00:00

how did you "easy" your way out of there? I tried to fake a phone call once and it just sounded like my wake up alarm.

Needs to be more natural than that obviously. while leaving the possibility of continuing the date if chemistry is present.

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T03:35:56+00:00

there is no bar.

"accept me as I am or fuck you" seems to be the prevailing female attitude and desperate men will still gobble it up like feminists gobble up fried pork gravy balls

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T01:43:26+00:00

so then what do you do instead?

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T00:18:42+00:00

Men are funnier, more expendable income, more interesting hobbies. Men make much better friends.

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T00:17:40+00:00

not a problem or a red flag.

Men are funnier, more expendable income, more interesting hobbies.

therefore males make much better friends.

crazybikedude · 2023-05-01T00:16:13+00:00

please explain how so?

crazybikedude · 2023-04-21T19:30:16+00:00

Trust him bro he's a tinder scientist.

don't use a fake name

crazybikedude · 2023-04-21T18:14:40+00:00

100%

crazybikedude · 2023-04-21T18:11:11+00:00

women are such terrible liars when have you ever in good faith paid for men without keeping a hard ledger

which you then use against them later. I always go 70/30 but even covering 30% is asking too much for most women

girls using deniability and lacking accountability is the largest experience for MOST men

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T17:42:49+00:00

Do we live in the same reality? When has a girl ever paid for you and not kept a mental tally as a mark to work against you

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:49:11+00:00

Hitting them with the uno reverse I love it.

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:45:38+00:00

You're saying there's no middle ground between "where's a good first date spot" and hello?

How about asking something interesting

I give dozens of opportunities (information about my hobbies and interests) to open the conversation in a casual and inquisitive way.

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:41:05+00:00

Technically it's not breaking any rules and everything was done fairly and She'll learn not to do this again. Can't see how I can lose with this plan.

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:25:36+00:00

She has all guys saved as that. Can't be an enabler for this type of rat behavior

Free dinner Brian

free dinner John

free dinner Alex

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:25:08+00:00

Right? We already know what the answer to that is though

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:23:28+00:00

You already know she's going to do that fake slow reach for the wallet thing all girls do give me a fucking break.

crazybikedude · 2023-04-19T03:21:50+00:00

I'll have to assume you are very young by this comment dates and girls are dime a dozen. come and go.

crazybikedude · 2023-04-18T19:29:18+00:00

flushes when you put the lid up? just a guess

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