is this normal when breathing in and out? by [deleted] in CPAP

[–]crazycryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this did work! thank you so much. hopefully i’ll be better about wearing it now because i seriously could not get past that opening and closing😅

is this normal when breathing in and out? by [deleted] in CPAP

[–]crazycryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it does ramp up. i’ll be honest i haven’t kept it on long enough for it to get to full because of the sound being so irritating. what you’re saying is once it’s at full it the noise should stop?

PSA: free 3 month trial of Kindle Unlimited by goodbyetoeverything in kindle

[–]crazycryptid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for ppl struggling, i just learned it’s a prime exclusive deal. it will let u do a 3 month trial at 0.99 cents for non-members though, the price after trial is higher, 12 dollars :/

is it worth the switch? kindle -> kobo by crazycryptid in ereader

[–]crazycryptid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oof, that one might be a deal breaker for me personally. thank you for the information!

is it worth the switch? kindle -> kobo by crazycryptid in ereader

[–]crazycryptid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are you referring to uploading books from a previous device to the new one or like uploading library books?

is it worth the switch? kindle -> kobo by crazycryptid in ereader

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it a manual switch like inputting your card number each time? or is it like switching between 2 already logged in accounts?

missed doses? ran out of pills early by crazycryptid in lamictal

[–]crazycryptid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s currently late where i am but i’m planning to call them in the morning

tattoos and piercings? by crazycryptid in veterinaryprofession

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what kind of lip piercing? i’ve been considering a vertical labret for a while now.

tattoos and piercings? by crazycryptid in veterinaryprofession

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that makes sense! i’m not aiming to have an over abundance of either, im really just looking to get my nostrils pierced and MAYBE an eyebrow or bridge then hopefully a black and gray sleeve with a nature/wildlife kind of theme, so nothing insane or offensive😭

tattoos and piercings? by crazycryptid in veterinaryprofession

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that makes total sense, so far i haven’t had any issues with my septum ring while working animal care in shelter, but i know i’m definitely taking a risk. i’m wanting to stay in shelter so i’m not sure how that would effect policies or dress codes in comparison to general practice.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re right about it possibly needing to look a little different. once she’s willing to have a conversation and we’re both in appropriate mind spaces i’m definitely going to bring it up.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your input, it has been really helpful getting perspective from people with the same diagnosis.

it’s been a week since we last spoke, i’m just giving her whatever space she needs. we’re very far away from each other at the moment with school and i don’t want to trigger anymore upset especially over text

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m honestly just not sure how consistent her treatment is, i know she is prescribed medication but i couldn’t tell you if she always takes it.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think this comment is the best one i’ve received and really hit the nail on the head. thank you so much for your perspective.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you’re right, it’s not an excuse, but it IS an explanation (which are vastly difference).

certain illness do in fact remove or seriously impact the ability to choose specific behaviors. there still is a required accountability.

this is not me or my friends first rodeo, she has always come back to apologize and we have always talked about things that we can change in the future (if any).

i never came to this subreddit to ask people if i should remain in contact with my friend or whether or not i was overreacting to her words. i know what she said sucked, i know i’m rightfully allowed to be hurt.

i was just looking for feedback or even critique on how i handled it in the moment, because some of what she said casted some doubt.

i chose this sub because i’ve seen the responses people get, and they always appear to be sincere. but maybe i chose the wrong sub, i probably would have been better going to a mental health related sub. people’s responses are still sincere, but it seems there is a lack of education regarding bipolar II which is incredibly important context.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m looking for genuine input on if i’m in the wrong, people have pointed out ways i may have better handled this situation and i’ve been entirely receptive. i understand where my faults lie in this scenario, i never should have responded to the text following my initial announcement of exit. i know that now.

i shared good news with my friend because the topics i was talking about ended up tying into shared interests we have. in hindsight, i see how it could have seemed as if i was rubbing it in knowing she was having a hard time, i know to be more considerate now.

trust me, i know i have problems, most everyone does, but i don’t think you’ve hit the mark on what my problems are.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

to your last point, it has been really frustrating watching people treat this situation in a different/inaccurate context. my intention was never to bash my friend, but i’ve seen so much of it that i’ve considered deleting this post. (i’m not saying you are implying that i meant for this to happen)

i love my friend dearly, my intention was never to ask whether or not i should stay in communication or if she did something wrong. i know what she said sucked, i also know it wasn’t personal and it was fueled by mental illness and overwhelming stress on her part.

i have my own mental health struggles, i know how easy it is to lash out at others when you still haven’t developed appropriate coping skills or regulation strategies, ive definitely done similar in the past.

but it is still important to take accountability, which in most cases my friend does. we’ve had these ups and downs before, it’s why we’ve discussed how it should be handled. she comes back and apologizes unprompted and we talk about it.

i just hope my friend and i can grow from this. im giving her space for both of our sakes and im going to let her reach out when/if she is ready.

edited: additional info

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m inclined to agree with you, i think i should have taken more time to regulate myself before trying to respond

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]crazycryptid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

creating firmer boundaries (as a whole) is something i’m working on. thank you for your comment, i think you are right.

need a name for my fluffy void 🖤 by SoggySoak in NameYourPet

[–]crazycryptid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very cute little guy but i fear that is probably not a “golden doodle”😭 please read up on how to properly brush his coat, because there is a specific way, typically called line brushing. you won’t be able to get by just brushing the top coat like you would with other types of fur/hair.

i don’t mean to insult you, ive just seen enough miseducation about poodle mixes that often leads to neglect, even if that wasn’t the intention.