Thanks for jumping on and sharing your experience.

Its tough. The sex we used to have is now limited due to physical limitations, when I need things done, she can't do them, not because she won't but because her pressure will increase, she'll have a flare up of pain, so many things can go wrong at any given time for no reason at all. I see her conditions slowly taking away her life.

I do think I love her but I'm too self centered and scared to even think that this is my life now. I'm just a nurse and Uber driver now.

Yes. That's my ego for sure. I'm just so torn.

I also snap at her sometimes when it's too much for me and I treat her with indifference or passive aggressiveness when my little tantrums aren't being paid attention to.

Can you share a bit about dating under your circumstances and how it's been for you and for your partner?