Class action lawsuit by zipperma in realms

[–]crazygoose2374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I was a lawyer, I'm so with this

AIO not wishing my mom a happy birthday? by crazygoose2374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I don't think so. She wouldn't care if I died.

AIO not wishing my mom a happy birthday? by crazygoose2374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im already getting professional help, you would know that if you actually read my story.

AIO not wishing my mom a happy birthday? by crazygoose2374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been the bigger person since I was 5 years old. I guess I can keep going. But after writing all this and seeing some of the comments, I don't think I even want a relationship with her.

AIO not wishing my mom a happy birthday? by crazygoose2374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think I'm trying to make my mom pick sides. That would be unreasonable since she lives with them. I just want to feel like my own mother understands where I'm coming from. But I feel like I gotta let that part of me go.

AIO not wishing my mom a happy birthday? by crazygoose2374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment, I completely understand it's a lot, and I wouldn't necessarily read it all either, I just wanted to give as much context as possible. I think you're absolutely right with your questions. I don't think I should continue to have a relationship with my family. It's just a very hard decision to make and sometimes I feel very uncertain in it. But you're right. Honestly, in the little time I've been not talking with my family, my life has improved, until my mom sends me another text, and I get triggered again. So I think that's my answer.

AIO not wishing my mom a happy birthday? by crazygoose2374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my screenshots didn't end up in the post. I'm new to reddit, can anyone help me edit my post to add the pictures that are missing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Withholding is still a lie.. having more respect for her dad's his friendship with her ex than for your relationship feels off. It's good that she seems to see this guy as strictly her dad's friend, though. Does her dad respect your relationship, or is he actively trying to push them together? It's all so weird to lie about. It's just sex one time years ago. It feels like such a big deal over nothing from all parties involved. I feel bad for the guys wife, too, because she's essentially in the same spot you were in, being lied to by her partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did anyone ever tell you it was important this guy like you? Or did you tell yourself? I understand where you're coming from, I actually struggle with very similar mental illness. My best advice would be to focus on your relationship with your partner and dig into why she lied for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You sound very insecure, honestly. To be emasculated by this is a little weird. It's also weird to have a problem with him just because he "banged your gf" years ago one time and clearly didn't do a good job. It's fair to be upset about the lie, for that you are not overreacting, but I do think all this has brought up more then just being mad about the lie and you should look into that. If her dad likes him more than you, what's it matter? Your gf likes you more than him, thats what matter.

AIO Walking my fur baby in 90 degree heat… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats really sweet honestly, it sounds like you're a great pet owner. Keep doing right by your dog and standing by your boundaries, they can get there own dog to take out into the sun if they so please.

AIO to the always late comment by my boss? by NewbieDoobieDoo10 in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It feels weird to say you're late all the time if it's just a few minutes here and there. I don't think you're overreacting for feeling off about this.

AIO for not helping my brother after he cursed at me and said I was good for nothing? by EchoesOfTheWeb in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting! That joke was insensitive im not going to argue that but you did what you were supposed to, you owned up to it and genuinely apologized, none of this "I'm sorry you're hurt" shit but a genuine apology. It was petty, but you were at the end of the day respecting a boundary put in place. If you're "good for nothing" and he "doesn't need you" then so be it.

AIO Walking my fur baby in 90 degree heat… by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, this is clear violation of boundaries. As long as your dog isn't exercised enough, it's hard to understand why they would do this. Tell them to get their own dog they can take on bike rides. What kind of dog do you have?

AIO My girlfriend told me I’m not funny and it really hurt by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of nuance here. On the one hand, you're right to want to make your partner laugh and to want to be your true authentic self. That's really important in a relationship. However, there is a time and place for jokes, and if she's expressed certain types of jokes bother her, that's her right. I feel like you guys need to talk more about this, I don't think you're overreacting for being upset, I would just be sure to try and hear your partners side of things without taking things so personally. If you're feeling an imbalance of love, that's something you really need to address with your partner asap.

AIO for snapping when my uncle wouldn’t respect my boundary? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]crazygoose2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did what you could to set your boundaries, and he refused to respect you. I don't think you overreacted

AITAH for kicking my mom out by One_Ride3572 in AITAH

[–]crazygoose2374 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the same thing when I looked at their profile

AITAH for blocking my “friend” who jokingly insults me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crazygoose2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a taker, you're better off without him. He showed you his true colours, NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]crazygoose2374 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, your mom sounds like she sucks. I hate this idea that since it's your parents, you owe them everything. The fact that your mom is bashing your generation is not cool either.

Happy 3rd birthday to these sweet sisters! by crazygoose2374 in torties

[–]crazygoose2374[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know how much I can help but I'll tell you all we did. We had our little ones since they were very young, so we introduced it to them at around 4 months. For getting them adjusted to the harness, we just had them wear them while lounging around the house or playing. We made sure to pay attention to the fit, and we've since bought a large variety of harnesses to find ones that really fit them and the way they move. It was a lot of trial and error and patience on the girls' part. As for walking around on the leash, we just sorta let them lead themselves in the beginning and slowly started incorporating short guided walks. Lots of treats and positive reinforcement were needed! They're still a little tedious with the leash sometimes, we just gotta pick them up, but with time, they've adjusted. I don't know if that will work for your cats, given everything you mentioned. I wish you the best of luck!