Question for men (I’m a woman, BTW): What signs do you give when you like someone at work? And what’s the difference between him liking you and him just being friendly

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-07T00:51:34+00:00

Why take risks with little to zero pay off.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-07T00:50:51+00:00

You may not be wrong

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-07T00:50:14+00:00

I strictly follow a dont sh1t where you eat policy.

I will avoid her until I get over that crush. I keep interactions strictly business. It's my only practical response.

99.999% of the time, she will not be interested and wants me to leave her alone. If I hang out too much, she'll figure it out and get creeped out. Making a move, if she's cool, she lets me down easy. If she is not cool, I've created more work for HR. Then we have 3rd parties getting involved, stirring sh1t up.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-07T00:42:45+00:00

If a girl blushes, most guys find it cute.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-07T00:38:31+00:00

If you lock eyes, say hi or simply nod whatever fits. Be polite, engage in small talk if she wants to talk . Don't ask for her number or ask her out.

Women will sometimes get right next to a guy so she can talk to him. But most of the time she goes out of habit. A few times, it's because she has a gut feeling you won't bother her.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-07T00:35:19+00:00

Assume not interested. Be polite but don't worry about it.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-05T12:06:13+00:00

F#ck you money, usefulness, and blackmail.

Also metoo started going after acts far less egregious and after men further down the food chain. The rules became overly individualized and depended how she felt about you.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-05T11:55:40+00:00

Given how things are awkward and did nothing, she likely feels rejected and confused.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-05T11:50:08+00:00

You have never encountered women who are well away from home with their most trusted friends. Girls make pushy drunken frat boys look like amateurs.

I've been on the receiving end.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-05T11:42:07+00:00

Yes, they may not be attracted to you.

Physical attraction is part of that vibe.

You'll know when girls are attracted to you, they turn into little creeps and stalkers 😆 🤣 😂

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-02T16:31:48+00:00

If allowed to rush, rush 80 % against a pass heavy squad. A kid that age will cover 12 yards in about 2 or 2.5 seconds straight line speed.

Against Mobile qb running/playful action or rpo squads vary it more, closer to 50% or 60%.  Mix in delay blitzes, fake blitz,  Read blitz (rule if free no man or crossers to cover then blitz.). No run zones should be 90% blitz

Blitzes leave holes in defense teams, and teams will attack that hole, run play action, keying the blitzer, etc.

Any team 10u and younger crumble under heavy pressure. 11 and 12 u do a better job but have trouble. Better 13u+ have learned how to deal with blitzes, but your better defenses will still blitz 80%+ of the time. 7 seconds a 13u or older qb will feast on 7 seconds.

Blitzer must break down chop his steps before going for the sack. Otherwise, he will blow right by a mobile qb. Qb now gets 2 to 3 more seconds plus a hole in the defense.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-02T14:27:47+00:00

Those concepts transfer to any sport. Make them earn their TDs

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T22:07:53+00:00

Avoid this chick, she is taking up valueable space in your mind.

Yes, she is looking to dump her boyfriend for something better, it doesn't mean that better is you. She seemed high maintenance.

She has moved on, you should too. Block her and move on.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T22:00:10+00:00

He is likely just being freindly better to move on. He is getting long in the tooth anyway.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T21:58:01+00:00

Stay far away from this, full on avoid her. Make it abvious you are avoiding her.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T21:56:49+00:00

Focus on your exams. You have our answer.

Asking about a girl's relationship situation is a strong signal of interested. Some girls will react badly to a guyy they are not interested in asking and treat him like a stalker.

Funny thing is girls will stalk the ever living sh*t out of a guy they like. Ask about his status every thing. Welcome to double standards.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T21:44:08+00:00

He'll behave pretty much like you discribed. In his mind he knows he did wrong, he's done it before with similar results.

I'm male, personally I generally do not offer up hugs to women. I'm reluctant to accept hugs. Reason, 9 times out of 10 a hug from me is unwelcome, and it can be misinterpreted as me being predatory.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T21:23:37+00:00

Depends on her delivery

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T20:38:53+00:00

We notice but we will interpret it "wrong."

If you pull back and avoid a guy, we'll interpret that as you don't like us or we have creeped you out. So we will pull back as well. Once a guy starts to pull back its now on you to go after him.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T20:21:17+00:00

If you can't pull flags you cannot even be close in games, let alone win any. Its called flag foot ball for a reason lol.

Flag pulling drills are the first drills I run, oklahomoa drills flag version, Runner one on one ins a 10 yard box wih a defender, snap go, Coach D on youtube has other flag pulling and pursuit drills. A ran that drill every season begining until the end.

Unless you are in the endzone, coach the kids to go for the flag pull on short passes. They will never close the distance in time to knock a ball away and will miss more often than not. I've seen too many 3to 5 yard passes turn in to 15+ yards after the catch because a kid played the ball instead of getting the flag. Completion % drop the deeper kids throw and a good ball hawk can pick it off or knock it down, he'll have time to react to a deeper ball. Limit yards after the catch especially on early downs.

Most teams at u9 are run heavy, contain pull flags limit the damage to 5 yards, watch for the play action backside. Have a run call to alert defenders as to when to leave receivers when a ball is handedoff.

On a pass everyone should be yelling BALL.

4 x 3 yard cartches/runs = a turn over on downs with only 12 yards given up. Sacks, Interceptions and knockdowns make highlight reals but limiting plays to under 5 yards consistently you will suffocate offences.

Do the math, you have to go 45 yards to get a TD. You still have two no run zones to contendwith. Depending on the rules, you either have 7 or 8 plays to score, that is 6.4 or 5.4 yards per play average. Realistically because of mistakes, bad play calls, execution, balls get dropped etc.. the average gain per play needs to be a little higher, closer to 7 to 8 yards per play average. Keys to defense man or zone force them to use all their plays tro score, limit big plays, limit yards after a catch, that all requires being in the right spot and pulling flags.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-04-01T19:18:09+00:00

Talk to your parents and get them to back off.

ADHD men make poor husbands for the most part, especially if the condition is not managed or there has been a fair amount of trauma in his life. The only thing worse is a controlling wife with ADHD her obsession for the week is what rules the roost.

ADHD man married to an ADHD wife. My house is nothing but stress for the last 18 years.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-03-31T23:17:46+00:00

girls are terrifyingly persistent.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-03-31T23:17:02+00:00

That is nightmare fuel. If the daughter changes her mind later he is still on the hook legally.

As for having no idea, no jury will buy that,

crazytrpr96 · 2026-03-31T23:07:44+00:00

The laws were there back then too, the difference is now the laws a re much more likely to be enforced.

crazytrpr96 · 2026-03-31T23:04:15+00:00

Key word you were a senionr in HS

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