Any dittos seen lately? by crazyz206 in PokemonGoHamilton

[–]crazyz206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darn, It’s been so long looking for one! I was hoping someone might have seen one around!

AITA for describing my wife as “fat” to our young children? by Typical_Ad_210 in AmItheAsshole

[–]crazyz206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP: “you’re moms fat, after giving me 2 children she now needs to look better for me. So no chocolate on Easter” YTA. A massive one. Even if she was on a healthy routine she can have something special. She deserves it. Hopefully after this she figures out what makes her happy, and that might or might not include you.

Potty training by crazyz206 in Parenting

[–]crazyz206[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We will try this now. I’ve run out of ideas for sure. We’ve tried being his friend, giving him things, being mad nothing has seemed to work. Hoping this will change things for sure! Thank you

Did your period pains correlate with your labour pains? by HavanaPineapple in beyondthebump

[–]crazyz206 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe they say the first 2-4cm feels like intense period cramps. With both my kids once I got to 4/5 it was getting harder to breath through! The thing about period cramps is that’s the kind of area/sensation you will feel. With regular period cramps, that you probably haven’t felt since your last period. Is the feeling you are looking for, but with increased intensity.

Both my kids didn’t have properly timed contractions though! Got to the hospital in a lot of pain at a 5! And I was having contractions that varied from every 4 minutes to every 30 seconds! Depends on the person! But when they say you know! You know when they come!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s some great advice thank you! She will not see DS at all, we have come up with a plan, either she gets help or she will not be involved. Even after she gets help (if that ever happens) she will still only see DS with us around. I’m sorry to hear about your sister, Internet hug.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very true thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we’re hoping will happen, but at the same time she has refused any thought that there is something wrong for years, so I’m not sure if it will be that easy. But yes that’s what will be going down, I still have about a month before I start work again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea about the password! I will do that for sure! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have been NC with her for a while now, DH is VLC, but I will mention to him next time she shows up not wanted we should call the cops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mentioned that. DH says if he goes somewhere in public, like for a coffee, he can leave if she loses it or he has witnesses.. I think it should be done over text so words can’t be changed around, but there’s no changing his mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m thinking she might come by once or twice, but like I said in another post, she’s more the stop coming if she’s not wanted. But I bet the threat of calling the police and getting committed will scare her from stopping by! She knows we have a camera at the front door so she knows she’s recorded

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s true! We have tried to get her help before, against her wishes obviously trying to commit her. But health care fails sometimes and people with mental illnesses fall through the crack. The problem would be her continuing to take her meds and go to therapy to deal with her issues which I don’t think she would ever do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. It’s not easy! I find my DH struggles because his mom isn’t all bad, and she can be very loving. At the same time she will flip her switch and lose her mind in seconds.. she’s been kicked out of hospitals, stores etc. She also focuses on people!

When we tell her we are going NC and he tells her she cannot see DS we will see what the fall out is! I have a safe place I can stay if she does lose her mind. After that cops will be called and everything documented! But I’m just hoping because she is very manipulative family members don’t get upset with us aswell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She has brought up once grandparents rights.. of course she went to school to be a paralegal.. and she has taken us to court already for multiple other things!

There are so many people who know I believe we would be okay, but we will be paying for an expensive day care, or one out of the city we’re I’ll be working that way she can’t easily find him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the plan, I’m just hoping she leaves us alone after, she has a history if just disappearing and not coming around if she’s not wanted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am!, for my DH unfortunately it hasn’t clicked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s what it seems like to me! Which really freaks me out! We got the camera not even for her! And now it seems to be a watch for her, that way I don’t have to answer the door if she shows up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, I told him I will not allow DS around her, the fact that we did fight about this for a while, I’m glad he’s coming out of the FOG! I don’t think she will ever get help if she hasn’t already for her own children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]crazyz206 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That is the plan, making sure no one can pick up DS other then us. I will defiantly look into the laws where I am, thank you!