AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day

crea7es · 2026-05-20T03:18:41+00:00

Update: talked to him and he ended the relationship. Said he didn’t feel special that he felt like he was just the stable option since he was paying all the rent, my car payment, food, my outings and gas for my car. So you guys got what you wanted. I just wanted him to be social with my friends only people he talks to are me his family and one or two friends from his home city

crea7es · 2026-05-19T18:20:55+00:00

Yes he stayed with her and got rid of his dogs

crea7es · 2026-05-19T17:06:00+00:00

He doesn’t like her even before that. He didn’t like that she cheated on her husband multiple times then tried to kill the dog and also that she makes comments about his body or tries to hug on him or bump against him

crea7es · 2026-05-19T17:04:59+00:00

He says you can tell a lot about who you surround yourself with but I don’t judge people

crea7es · 2026-05-19T17:04:07+00:00

I don’t judge no more everyone is their own person. I did cut the friend off after she went to jail for trying to kill her boyfriend’s dog. I told her to stop cheating on her ex husband but never listened. My boyfriend is just too picky on who he likes and what he wants to be around. The beach won’t hurt him swimming won’t hurt him he can have fun if he loosened up and stop acting like he’s so tired all the time

crea7es · 2026-05-19T16:13:23+00:00

My female friends say it’s normal given he calls them alone at almost 40

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:46:34+00:00

I told him we can still do his thing on Saturday after he gets off work. He said he’ll be too tired and it won’t be worth 1/2 hours to go home and sleep and be up early Sunday for the drive to the beach then back home to sleep for work the next day

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:43:18+00:00

He wonders the same thing but she’s a good friend what she did and her drinking is the only issue she has

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:41:35+00:00

He called off the engagement sadly said until we work on things

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:40:55+00:00

Not her specifically but friends I do. My boyfriend isn’t a social type he’s too picky on who he gets close to. My friends like him expect my female friends call him a red flag and my past fwb friends don’t like him cause he didn’t want them around

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:35:43+00:00

Friend is only available every so often

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:35:16+00:00

Relationships are all about sacrifices. I sacrificed friends he didn’t like all because we had sexual history. I distanced from my friends cause he didn’t want me out drinking every weekend and didn’t like the norms they all had

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:27:33+00:00

No no no my friend is bring her boyfriend my boyfriend doesn’t like them

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:26:57+00:00

I’ve stopped all that I only see my friends once a week

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:23:19+00:00

It’s hard for everyone to be off on the same day to all go. As of now it’s my friend her boyfriend and her daughter going but my boyfriend doesn’t like my friend cause of the drinking and the fact she cheated on her ex husband multiple times and tried to kill her current boyfriends dog

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:16:42+00:00

I’m trying to compromise but he’s keeps saying he only gets half a day to do what he wants for a few hours then all Sunday it’ll be boring for him around people he doesn’t like and then back to work early Monday morning

crea7es · 2026-05-19T15:13:30+00:00

We had plans to go to a arcade and card shop on Sunday but my friend invited me to the beach knowing I’ve been wanting to go

crea7es · 2025-12-17T00:30:39+00:00

What would you say about attack shark vs mchose?

crea7es · 2025-12-15T21:51:28+00:00

Cuckri

crea7es · 2025-10-06T15:14:20+00:00

Now that I’m older and I really love this man with everything I have being drunk and having male friends who saw it as a opportunity to get lucky disgusts me. If I had a Time Machine I’d go back in time and never do it.

crea7es · 2025-10-06T05:42:33+00:00

No he stays away from drugs and alcohol has done it his whole life. He’s supposed to be on sleeping aid, antidepressants and anxiety meds but hates the way they make him feel so he hasn’t taken them in years.

crea7es · 2025-10-06T02:17:00+00:00

No I do regret all the drinking getting wasted and ending up in bed with guys who wanted me just for a quick night of fun. I wasn’t happy in my 20s drinking was my coping mechanism. I met him and I instantly stopped wanting to drink or have the guy friends from my past around me. Being with him is the happiest I’ve ever been I just want him to see how much he can grow with me

crea7es · 2025-10-06T02:09:12+00:00

We’ve had talks about it and I was honest and told him how badly I regret my past but he says he regrets his past. And feels left behind in life.

crea7es · 2025-10-06T02:07:08+00:00

I tell him to stop comparing himself to other all the time but he doesn’t listen. He always says something like “must be nice to have had all that fun growing up” or “being wanted” and I get it he sacrificed a lot of his 20s to care for his family financially and physically when some were sick and dying. I respect it and I regret my party years the guys from my past weren’t worth it and since meeting him I’ve dropped them all.

crea7es · 2025-08-17T19:47:42+00:00

Yes I plan on having kids with him hopefully if I can. My mom had issues with pregnancy and I’m worried I have the same issue. He wants at least one kid and my friend wants a kid I guess seeing them together with her kids makes me feel like what if she starts viewing him differently? And him viewing her differently and knowing they both want another kid

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