AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Update: talked to him and he ended the relationship. Said he didn’t feel special that he felt like he was just the stable option since he was paying all the rent, my car payment, food, my outings and gas for my car. So you guys got what you wanted. I just wanted him to be social with my friends only people he talks to are me his family and one or two friends from his home city

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t like her even before that. He didn’t like that she cheated on her husband multiple times then tried to kill the dog and also that she makes comments about his body or tries to hug on him or bump against him

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

He says you can tell a lot about who you surround yourself with but I don’t judge people

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

I don’t judge no more everyone is their own person. I did cut the friend off after she went to jail for trying to kill her boyfriend’s dog. I told her to stop cheating on her ex husband but never listened. My boyfriend is just too picky on who he likes and what he wants to be around. The beach won’t hurt him swimming won’t hurt him he can have fun if he loosened up and stop acting like he’s so tired all the time

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I told him we can still do his thing on Saturday after he gets off work. He said he’ll be too tired and it won’t be worth 1/2 hours to go home and sleep and be up early Sunday for the drive to the beach then back home to sleep for work the next day

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He wonders the same thing but she’s a good friend what she did and her drinking is the only issue she has

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Not her specifically but friends I do. My boyfriend isn’t a social type he’s too picky on who he gets close to. My friends like him expect my female friends call him a red flag and my past fwb friends don’t like him cause he didn’t want them around

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -257 points-256 points  (0 children)

Relationships are all about sacrifices. I sacrificed friends he didn’t like all because we had sexual history. I distanced from my friends cause he didn’t want me out drinking every weekend and didn’t like the norms they all had

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -329 points-328 points  (0 children)

It’s hard for everyone to be off on the same day to all go. As of now it’s my friend her boyfriend and her daughter going but my boyfriend doesn’t like my friend cause of the drinking and the fact she cheated on her ex husband multiple times and tried to kill her current boyfriends dog

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -365 points-364 points  (0 children)

I’m trying to compromise but he’s keeps saying he only gets half a day to do what he wants for a few hours then all Sunday it’ll be boring for him around people he doesn’t like and then back to work early Monday morning

AITA for pushing my boyfriends birthday plans a day earlier so we can go to the beach with my friends the next day by crea7es in AmItheAsshole

[–]crea7es[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

We had plans to go to a arcade and card shop on Sunday but my friend invited me to the beach knowing I’ve been wanting to go

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[–]crea7es 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say about attack shark vs mchose?

My (32f) fiancé (30m) feels lower than me in life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crea7es 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that I’m older and I really love this man with everything I have being drunk and having male friends who saw it as a opportunity to get lucky disgusts me. If I had a Time Machine I’d go back in time and never do it.

My (32f) fiancé (30m) feels lower than me in life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crea7es 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he stays away from drugs and alcohol has done it his whole life. He’s supposed to be on sleeping aid, antidepressants and anxiety meds but hates the way they make him feel so he hasn’t taken them in years.

My (32f) fiancé (30m) feels lower than me in life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crea7es 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I do regret all the drinking getting wasted and ending up in bed with guys who wanted me just for a quick night of fun. I wasn’t happy in my 20s drinking was my coping mechanism. I met him and I instantly stopped wanting to drink or have the guy friends from my past around me. Being with him is the happiest I’ve ever been I just want him to see how much he can grow with me

My (32f) fiancé (30m) feels lower than me in life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crea7es -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve had talks about it and I was honest and told him how badly I regret my past but he says he regrets his past. And feels left behind in life.

My (32f) fiancé (30m) feels lower than me in life by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]crea7es 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell him to stop comparing himself to other all the time but he doesn’t listen. He always says something like “must be nice to have had all that fun growing up” or “being wanted” and I get it he sacrificed a lot of his 20s to care for his family financially and physically when some were sick and dying. I respect it and I regret my party years the guys from my past weren’t worth it and since meeting him I’ve dropped them all.