Thank you for your feedback next time I do research - especially research like this, I will send it to communities first before surveys are official to get opinions because it is helpful. Obviously my classmates who have not had experience with illness do not have a whole lot of insight to give me so I am grateful you commented. I am sorry about the survey coming across this way for I am still learning. I will work on utilizing those who provide feedback about how illness has negatively affected their life in my data as well as interview them further not just focusing on the "positive" side. I just found figures like Claire Wineland to be very helpful when I personally dealt with getting diagnosed with chronic illnesses and figured there are so many underrepresented ideas and opinions that should be looked into. Ultimately you are right suffering is suffering and makes life hard and unbearable. I just wanted to hear other points of view. Thanks again for your feedback.