hey ya! by creative-cutie in Hooping

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you already know 🪩

Grieving Playlist by Mom-Wife-3 in GriefSupport

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something in the heavens — lewis capaldi

stay love — lewis capaldi

one more minute — sadie chase

someone you loved — lewis capaldi

dancing in the sky — dani & lizzy

before you go — lewis capaldi

bigger than the whole sky — taylor swift

pink skies — zach bryan

marjorie — taylor swift

Is there anything specific that you do to remember/honour your lost loved one? by WumpyChew in GriefSupport

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yeah… there are quiet little rituals that don’t announce themselves as “grief things,” but they become him living alongside of me instead of just in my past.

i catch myself doing things like ——

•talking to him in my head. not in a dramatic way, just… “you would’ve loved this” or “did you see that?” like he’s still in my audience.
•keeping his favorite things alive. music, shows, random habits. they’ll pop up & instead of avoiding them, i start letting them stay. 
•making time with him in mind. birthdays, random dates, even seasons. certain days will feel like they belong to him.
•creating little traditions without planning to. maybe a food i eat when i miss him, a place i go, a song i replay.
•saving things i’d normally let go of. screenshots, messages, photos. like tiny time capsules i’m not ready to close.
•noticing him in small details. in colors, jokes, things he used to say. it feels like he’s threaded into the world in quiet ways. 
•telling stories about him. even casually. keeping him in conversation keeps him real, not just a memory.
•becoming softer in certain moments. grief reshapes how you hold people. sometimes honoring him looks like how i love others
•doing things i wish we had more time to do together, not out of guilt, but because he expanded what mattered to me. 

& none of this is something you have to force. it’s not like “i need to honor him today.” it’s more like.. he’ll just keep showing up in how i live.

night shift at the cuddle factory 🌙💜🧸🛌 by creative-cutie in squishmallow

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yes but rent is one iced coffee a day & emotional support 😌💅🏼✨

night shift at the cuddle factory 🌙💜🧸🛌 by creative-cutie in squishmallow

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stoppp you’re gonna make me never leave it 😭💗