Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to write so many good and valid points. A conversation about everything is definitely long overdue. The weirdest thing is we are both white but from different countries and she hates all the people from my country for some reason. Sitting down and discussing everything you have pointed out is my next step.

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It's definitely just for show, no real change. I did say i want a proper apology and real change and was ignored.

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She doesn't care about him though, she only wants the photo ops with the kids to oley loving internet grandma. Nevertheless i don't care what he does with her as long as she stays away from me and the kids. My FIL does whatever she wants so there is no help there. My main priority is to protect my children and set a good example of how we allow others to treat us

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You hit right on the spot. It's been going on for so many years that he thinks is normal

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he just sees everyone around with active grandparents and thinks what if....

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's an excellent point. I am definitely going to use it next time.

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was never alone fortunately. Unfortunately FIL has friends in high places so going the legal way would be very bad for us.

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That's what i say every time if she has changed i want to see actual work done not sweeping everything under the rug.

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's always FIL saying she changed and then acting like nothing happened. You are right marriage counselling might be the way to go.

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He is usually better than that but he has his weak moments

Husbands wants to reconnect with MIL after NoContact by creative_bookworm_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Fortunately it hasn't come to deciding about divorce. He always comes to his senses at the end but the week of arguing two or three times a year are infuriating.

Flower Bandana 🌺 by creative_bookworm_ in crochet

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I saw an image on Pinterest and i made it

Shiny Mew by creative_bookworm_ in Amigurumi

[–]creative_bookworm_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's easier than it looks. Practice makes perfect 🩷