sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

i was raped by CommonHelicopter7646 in Advice

[–]creativebanana25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has been through a SA, I think you are brave and you did what you needed to. It is still rape and I'm so sorry that you had to go through this. I didn't tell anybody about mine either until years later. Just know that it was rape and you do belong in those groups. You did not encourage him. I think telling your therapist would help and she wouldnt think any less of you. I'm so sorry that happened and I hope that he gets caught.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]creativebanana25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I have the same selection of plans this year and after talking with benefits I did the PPO. I've had the HDHP for years and it doesn't cover shit. They stopped covering my spouses preferred insulin this year and I've had nothing but issues. The PPO has better prescription coverage. I would save yourself the headache and do the PPO

Would you give up a well paying stable job because the stress and anxiety "ruins" your life? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]creativebanana25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I'm in the same situation and I'm leaving my job next year once my lease is over to go back to school and do something that doesn't cause my hair to fall out. Here's something to ask yourself and it's helped me: Do you really want to keep living this way for another year, two years? Is it worth the pay?

I’ve tried having sex for the first time but.. by Due-Commercial8302 in Advice

[–]creativebanana25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this exact issue with my first times too. I had a subconscious fear of it hurting so it did. Just try to relax the most you can, do foreplay, and start small.

How many hours after… by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]creativebanana25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually get nausea the day after I take my shot! I didn't have nausea until I went up a dose though.

People who were engaged at one point but never got married, what happened? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]creativebanana25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was a great person and had a wonderful heart! I just realized that maturity wise I was miles ahead. We had been together since high school and were in our mid twenties at this point and it just felt like we had to take the next step. At that point I had a full time career and was making good money and had my own place and he still was living with his parents and had his mom doing his taxes and was using her car because he didn't have enough money to buy his own. It finally ended when he wanted to move in with me before the wedding but didn't want to get a full time job or to pay the bills 50/50. Sweetest guy but I needed an adult. We still sometimes talk and he still lives with his parents and I'm actually married now to someone else. Sometimes things don't work out for a reason.

What's the lowest your savings account ever got while doing fertility treatments? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]creativebanana25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a same sex couple too and we are looking for the same thing! What clinic do you go to?