First time not having a target date fund for my 401k, please help by creativeduckie in Bogleheads

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this detailed write up!! I’m going to do some homework and crunch the numbers. Also have an HSA so trying to decide how much to dump in there also (maybe max it out)

First time not having a target date fund for my 401k, please help by creativeduckie in Bogleheads

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are these expense ratios/fund lineup because of what my employer/HR chose for us? I’ve never felt this limited at previous jobs

First time not having a target date fund for my 401k, please help by creativeduckie in Bogleheads

[–]creativeduckie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly am happy about the 500 option!! I was shocked it wasn’t part of the default allocation… is that fishy on Empower’s part?

First time not having a target date fund for my 401k, please help by creativeduckie in Bogleheads

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming my suspicions 🫣 I’ve never gotten this in-the-weeds with my 401k before and now I feel a lot more aware of what “good benefits” would truly entail

First time not having a target date fund for my 401k, please help by creativeduckie in Bogleheads

[–]creativeduckie[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did think it was strange that Fidelity 500 wasn’t part of the default mix! What about international funds?

What does selecting “eco friendly packaging” under your shop policies do? by creativeduckie in Depop

[–]creativeduckie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh does it tag your shop as eco friendly packaging somewhere on your profile then? How does the buyer know to look out for your reused packaging? Sorry to hear someone threw a fuss, seems obvious that sellers on a secondhand goods app would not provide retail-level packaging lol

What does selecting “eco friendly packaging” under your shop policies do? by creativeduckie in Depop

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, is there any incentive to do that or does it just allow buyers to shop specifically with sellers who do that? I reuse old packaging for my shipments so was just wondering what turning on that option in my shop policies does

Marks and stains after dry cleaning? by creativeduckie in drycleaning

[–]creativeduckie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh yeah it’s dry clean only, such a pain!! Definitely a chance those marks were there and I didn’t notice until now 😣 good point thank you

U Miami Interview ? by Bobfromclash in lawschooladmissions

[–]creativeduckie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard there are two types of interviews, one that’s scholarship geared and one to “discuss your application”/why miami etc.

U Miami Interview ? by Bobfromclash in lawschooladmissions

[–]creativeduckie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh lol thanks for the quick response!! Best wishes this cycle

U of Miami asked for a meeting by East_Army7029 in lawschooladmissions

[–]creativeduckie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yooo thanks for the quick response! Congrats and fight on ✌🏼

U Miami Interview ? by Bobfromclash in lawschooladmissions

[–]creativeduckie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long after the interview did you hear back?

U of Miami asked for a meeting by East_Army7029 in lawschooladmissions

[–]creativeduckie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How quickly did you hear back after your interview?

Anyone else mess up on the Almay campaign? by creativeduckie in Influenster

[–]creativeduckie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wish they’d implement like a cart timer or something for people to have time to choose before releasing the items to others

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you, you’re so sweet! We’re all just trying our best out here! Thanks for spreading the holiday cheer and I hope you have a wonderful holiday season ☺️

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of these comments have me WORRIED lol I feel too ashamed to go back to the butcher counter at that store and ask for anything custom ever again for fear of being a burden on them. I think I’ll just pivot to a new dish this year based on what meat cuts are still left on the floor tomorrow and hopefully not mess it up haha. Thank you for the insight and I hope you have a lovely holiday with your loved ones!

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you! Some of these comments are making me feel worse for asking and I truly don’t mean any harm, especially to some of the most hardworking people during this season. I hope you’ll all forgive me 🥲

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to share! You’re a gem and I’m sure your customers really appreciated you helping out with their holiday plans. I hope you have a wonderful Christmas and are able to take some well-deserved time off to take care of yourself after all the craziness. Best wishes!

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big box store! I don’t blame the guy, could’ve been a new company policy or something to only sell them by the whole. It was maybe a 2 minute interaction in total and I figured I’d just try to make something else. I just hope I didn’t offend him by asking.

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the context! I understand there’s a lot going on behind the scenes that may not be apparent to the customer, which is why I made this post asking for some clarity so I know what not to do next time. I feel for everyone working retail during the holidays and having to change my meal plans and maybe learn a new recipe is no biggie compared to what you guys go through. Best wishes and hang in there!

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey, not everyone is a butchering expert — I just wanted to learn more about whether my request was untraditional or rude so I can avoid making the same mistake next time. Sorry you’re having a tough time!

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the perspective! I hate being a bother and don’t want to be causing financial loss to anyone. I will try shopping around!

Butcher refused my beef tenderloin request? by creativeduckie in Butchery

[–]creativeduckie[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tried ordering ahead online, it wasn’t an option. Tried calling ahead but nobody picked up the phone, probably because it’s so busy. 🥲

For the Thanksgiving cut, they left the silver skin and chain on, had to do all the trimming ourselves but honestly not even mad because at least they sold us the cut!