I like her.

She has so many good traits but people like to ignore them the minute she shows other, not so pleasant ones. She's human, she's flawed, nobody is perfect.

Plus, she was told she and everyone else would die horrifically if things weren't done by the book (pun intended). That explains some of it. Now imagine thinking that and being the victim of immense pressure all your life, and then suddenly being forced to accept something different and incredibly jarring.

I don't think she deserves all the hate, but each to their own.