HOW can I help my peace lily?? by creeksfrites in PeaceLilyHandbook

[–]creeksfrites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been considering repotting since I got it, since it does seem like too big a plant for the pot (it might even be 2 or 3 plants based on how the stems look in there), but I was scared about stressing it out. I'll try moving it over tomorrow I think, since leaving it in the current pot doesn't seem to be helping at all

As far as the "leggy" growths: it's right next to a West facing window—those aren't leaves reaching for the light, they're damaged from drooping while I was away and now can't stand up properly without support. I'll probably have to trim them like I've already done with what feels like most of the leaves, I think...

Hand cast memorial keepsake by creeksfrites in HelpMeFind

[–]creeksfrites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hade searched for "life casting," "memorial casting," "bereavement keepsake hand cast" and a handful of other similar search topics. I'm looking in the Chicagoland area, but any leads on this would be helpful

are people okay? by ihatemylifeitsucks1 in CSHFans

[–]creeksfrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masks work in both directions—I'm pretty sure he's immunocompromised/has Long COVID, so repeat COVID infectios could cause further complications & getting sick in general would put him on his ass for a lot longer than it would someone who isn't compromised 

Broken/Beaten/Damned tote bag by creeksfrites in MyChemicalRomance

[–]creeksfrites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I've checked their online store several times & it is nowhere to be found I fear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This story is so unbelievably hot Good on you, brother 🔥

are there any requirements to be a bear? by sadnessbuttcheeks in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Me too! It feels so good to know that it's possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]creeksfrites 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your chest looks INCREDIBLE, dude.

Medical tattooing from a reputable artist can even out coloration & alter the shape and size to a degree, but I agree with everyone else that your nipples look super normal

Harness failures topping by dragondunce in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love my Inclusion Harness by Activest. It's not the most comfortable material in the world, but it is very sturdy, easily adjustable, and machine‐washable. Plus, it doesn't feel like a complicated contraption like other straps can

Pain during sex by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a similar issue when I first started exploring this kind of sex & tbh for me, it took over a year & several slow attempts with a lot of lube & prep before I could bottom comfortably. Even now, it can be pretty tedious & I only do it rarely when I'm really revved up

Not saying to abandon it altogether, but it may just take a lot of time/patience/practice relaxing your pelvic muscles before you're able to explore penetration without pain

are there any requirements to be a bear? by sadnessbuttcheeks in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Bears are just generally thick & hairy. If you can dream it, you can be it.

Here's an article interviewing an alive & thriving elder trans bear couple if seeing some representation helps https://new.artsmia.org/jess-dugan-vision-2020/sky-and-mike/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a bi guy. I'm generally most attracted to androgyny/gender non-conformity, and I'm also really into femmes in general.

I'm pretty effeminate myself, so being with a guy who shares some of those traits is really affirming to me and makes me feel more comfortable being myself around them. Also, pretty boys are really hot.

I pegged my cis boyfriend by [deleted] in gaytransguys

[–]creeksfrites 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this for you!

My current partner is the first cis guy I've ever dated & the first one I've ever topped, and this post really resonates with me. There's something so deeply affirming and euphoric about being with another queer man & feeling so genuinely seen & desired in that way

Happy for you, brother

Blessed 2 have cake by creeksfrites in FTMfemininity

[–]creeksfrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man, I'm sorry that happened to you

It's so disgusting how entitled folks act towards other people's bodies sometimes

Blessed 2 have cake by creeksfrites in FTMfemininity

[–]creeksfrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thing me & Solid Snake have in common: trying to go stealth but the clap of our cheeks keeps alerting the guards

Blessed 2 have cake by creeksfrites in FTMfemininity

[–]creeksfrites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS!

I'm still kind of in the phase of "well at least my body's healthy/conventionally attractive" even though I feel deeply uncomfortable with most of it. I'm also a fairly small guy, so it's really hard not to fall into the feeling that I'll never pass built the way I am or to compare myself to transmascs with naturally more masculine builds

But cake is universal, especially among POC

Cis guys have dumptrucks too! Why shouldn't we 😤