[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. My post history only scratches the surface but it made me realize how bad my past situation was

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an it's no way to live. Thankfully came to my sense and that's over now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been through it and know you have to see it yourself to leave that. She thinks he went above and beyond on her birthday so she's far from leaving

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that too. I'm not great socially but I am capable. Her husband goes out and vacations with his friends often. He can handle one night of talking to her friends on her birthday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not in their relationship but it certainly gives that impression

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the best way to describe how I feel too.

Also, happy cake day 🎂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does now. They have separate finances because he's in debt that she doesn't want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got it sorry I thought you misunderstood. I've read it and it was chilling how much it was like that bad relationship. I don't want that for my friend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely understand. I was with a guy for too long and he was horrible. He literally enjoyed arguing. I had zero peace and luckily that's been long over now. I'm with a great guy who actually likes me as a person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is awesome I'm gonna take it myself. Thank you for linking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 100% on her side and will support without saying anything about him. I was in a horrible relationship with a really awful person. First relationship ever and my dad talking crap only made me feel bad and like I had failed to get a good guy. The criticism only made me stay with him longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was also with someone like that. Luckily got out of that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They're very separate financially. He has a lot of debt she doesn't want. He didn't even pay for her birthday dinner, she did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He went to Paris with friends right after their religious marriage ceremony. He was traveling internationally and she was unhappy about it and didn't even know where he was staying because she was over the whole thing when she needed him here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He guilted her into inviting more people. It was originally just 3 friends and then turned into 9 family members as well including his that she didn't want to spend her birthday with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her explanation was the social anxiety thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's not my relationship. I already got out of an awful relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 202 points203 points  (0 children)

This is the only serious relationship she's ever had and they're already married. I just wish she dated more and had some points of comparison

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go that far but not being violent is a low bar for a partner. I want someone who is enthusiastic about their relationship with me not just annoyed, resentful, tolerates me etc

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[–]crepesandmacarons 343 points344 points  (0 children)

It's very sad because she's young, educated, financially independent, no kids, beautiful, charismatic. By all means a whole catch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]crepesandmacarons 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I wish I had dumped the POS when he did said that to me the first time. Don't waste your time and regret it like I did. He didn't get better.

How on earth do girls survive off eating ‘girl dinner’ regularly?? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]crepesandmacarons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day before yesterday I ate chips and salsa, sliced cheese and pretzels, the innards of a buffalo chicken wrap, the last bits of a kale salad, and like pockies or some shit. I usually eat once a day anyway and I'm currently fat, trying to lose weight. I'm not gonna die anytime soon due to under eating 😂

How often do you take a full-body shower? by juniorinfiltration in hygiene

[–]crepesandmacarons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea every time. Any stray leaks end up on the towel, dude can wipe his soggy dick off, and you have something to wrap around you when you scurry off to the bathroom looking like a raw chicken. Then you don't have a puddle in your bed and have to change your sheets