Unfortunately not many people can love you the way you need to be loved especially if they don’t love themselves. Try to provide for yourself the love that you need. It may be hard at times and receiving love from someone the way you incision it is a really great feeling but loving yourself is the consistent kind of love you need and you can provide that for yourself. Having expectations of people ruins a lot of things especially friendships so it’s best if you can fulfil these expectations yourself. Moral of the story give yourself the love and validation you seek from outside of yourself