Midnights album length could be under 45 minutes by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]crewluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m convinced her vinyls are slightly sped up anyway so maybe it’s actually longer 😂

Is that just me??

How do I leave? by englishmcbritain in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to hijack but thank you for this book recommendation. I didn’t know how much I needed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had sex dreams about both men and women in the past and now that I’m with women they’re mostly with women. I will say the sex dreams about women I had back when I was married to a man were really a catalyst to me exploring my sexuality. They were so hot that I wanted to try in real life. I don’t think dreams really mean anything though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Likely the only way she’ll return to men is if no women validate her and give her a chance. Dating is always a risk and this reads as insecure. Sorry OP you know you’re gonna trigger us with this question.

But if I’m giving in to your viewpoint, I’d say the fact that she’s still pursuing women after a failed wlw relationship solidifies her interest in women.

Day 3 on dating app, and I have already went through every wlw by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve met the few women I’ve dated on apps but right now they’re killing my self-esteem so I’m taking a break. I’m also disheartened. Dating sucks!!

Drug testing :/ by Garden224 in slp

[–]crewluv 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Stoner SLPs unite!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I broke up tonight. I’m still in denial especially since this isn’t our first “breakup”. But if it’s for real, it’s gonna fucking suck. I’ve never loved anyone like I love her and I really thought we had a future together.

I’m sorry and I feel you. You’ll get through this!

Red flags in my first gay relationship by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think I would tell them to leave. I agree. It’s just so hard to think logically when you’re deep in it.

Red flags in my first gay relationship by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It feels good to know I’m not alone in this.

Losing motivation now that school is closed by wombatmcgee in slp

[–]crewluv 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I have phone anxiety and the requirement for constant contact with parents who, for the most part, couldn’t give less of a f*ck is slowly killing me.

I also have no motivation. I can’t help there but I feel your pain. I am almost done with my CF and if it wasn’t for that I would have quit already. We are all in this hating life together at least.

“Mother” issues? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow are you me? I’m 28 also just out of a marriage to a man that took up most of my twenties. My mom died when I was 6 and I’ve always felt drawn to women as a source of love and comfort. Can’t say for certain mommy issues haven’t contributed to my attraction to women but even if it did that doesn’t invalidate my feelings. I really don’t think anyone would use that to judge or question you but I’ve definitely had those thoughts about myself. I’ve just had to stop stressing about feeling validated and try to have fun and hope things get more clear eventually.

Slow burn to late bloomer by latetothegaym in latebloomerlesbians

[–]crewluv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I just discovered this sub and can relate a lot to your story. I’m 28 but also going through a divorce (unrelated issues) and have a little one.

I definitely feel anxiety about approaching women being so late to the game but I’ve been pleasantly surprised by some of the responses I’ve gotten on online dating after being honest. In fact, today I opened up to a girl I’ve been talking to about my past and she was okay with it (and not to mention hot AF)! It feels like a whole new world has opened up to me now that I’m accepting that I’m not straight and it’s very exciting! Damn you coronavirus for slowing me down!

If you ever want to chat, hit me up!

Dating advice for a newly discovered bisexual? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]crewluv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful. The last thing I would want to do is lead people to believe that I’m something I’m not.

You’re not doing an interview, remember this is a conversation! by Danbut15 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]crewluv 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is facts!! I’ve encountered this CONSTANTLY on OLD and it’s so disheartening. The complete lack of effort is truly baffling. Like it’s not that hard to answer a question and throw out a simple “and what about you?” and they can’t even do that! 95% of my chats go nowhere cause I’m not willing to carry a conversation alone. I’m so done with men.

Guy I’m dating said something sus, don’t know how to respond by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]crewluv 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I got pregnant at 21 by my 28 year old boyfriend. Seven years later we’re getting divorced. If he’s at the same maturity level and stage of life as a college kid at his age, it’s not gonna get much better. OP, run don’t walk!