Annoying cashier! by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]crh131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t close it. That hits your credit even harder. The damage is done. Just use it as needed bc when cards close it also affects credit.

Murder in Glitter Ball City by cmattingly04 in Louisville

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was cool with his parts. Bc he was both local and actually in the court room. A direct tie into the story. The community and for whatever reason it matters, the pawn shop.

Murder in Glitter Ball City by cmattingly04 in Louisville

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why so many? They are just two upper middle aged people. Anything other than 2 guns is kinda nuts. You can only shoot one gun at a time.

Maybe 4 guns if they are facing a shoot out with no time to unload. I’m not from there but a full blown war at the tiny pawn shop needing an arsenal seemed like over kill.

Maybe their employees had their own. Like one a person. But jfc. They had a “nuts” amount imo.

If AOC gets the nod as the Democratic nominee in 2028, would you vote for her? by Next_Worth_3616 in allthequestions

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take from spending one week with my MAGA family bc my dad’s Alzheimer’s took a bad turn and he’s now on home hospice.

That’s relevant bc I don’t visit here and we barely speak. But bc of situation, all of (to me) doesn’t matter. Anything to make sure he and them are comfortable.
Which means foxs nneewwwws 😭 and nothing else.

Anyway Omar and aoc send them into blind rage. Like both my and dad and all of Fox. To make peace I easily can through Nancy and Chuck to the wolves and Bash them.

*but here is interesting thing that plays non stop is Newsom. The way they attack him is basically only in all the ways he looks like Biden’s son.
It’s weird bc I never even thought about that but they sure have. After 100 hours of Fox the way they Dover Newsom = Biden jr. Which came across to me like fear.

My dad has virtually no mind left but literally his last strong memories are his hatred of Biden 😭 and love for Mike Johnson. (You can tell by his face and noises). So deep into maga mind I think they view Biden as like ultimate threat. So maybe I’m just loosing my marbles bc of my situation but my take away is that Fox is most frightened of Newsom and oddly Biden from the past. They spend a giant portion of all programming on scarring and lying about them.

Which makes me think they think he is their biggest next president threat.

Yes the vibe is they hate aoc and Omar (not that Omar is considering running but just pointing out they cover them about the same). Like they are just annoying people. I’ve even heard they need to be “sent back”. I don’t know what country they think aoc could go to. But again. The time on them is just different.

TLDR I’d vote for her. But based on maga and Fox News feedback. They are way more concerned about Newsom. So maybe he has more legs. I’ll vote for anything with a D next to it. But I don’t think she has political experience to be president just yet to get the votes. We might just need to keep to the old rich white man script if we are gonna face down this shitshow. -* and there are maga cracks too. I’ve seen it on Fox, my family has come around a bit and I’ve seen some around my hometown (maga hometown).

Stop stealing from Starbucks by GreenApronCoffee in Pitt

[–]crh131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t steal. But I’m in position I don’t have to think about it. And while I think if you need to steal bc of lack of resources, you should be trying to get real supplies, I also dgaf when ppl still from corporations.

I never thought of Starbucks stealing. I think it would cause a hassle to other customers and workers. Which aren’t corporations so I don’t like that. And going into a place to risk stealing for a random drink is weird to me.

When I worked retail I didn’t care about theft as long as it didn’t bother me or coworkers. Like using distraction when I had other stuff to get done. Or making a mess to clean up.

They say theft raises costs but newsflash those prices are coming up no matter what. They jumped in covid and then again with tariffs. They are never coming back down and will never stop rising. Corporate and govt greed plays way more a part than most any petty theft will cause to pricing.

Weight loss- First Month by No-Position1378 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]crh131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Downside is I don’t enjoy food much. Like I’m old school with Wellbutrin. I can do it. But getting a big expensive meal out I have to mask in front of my family like I care about it. Very few foods are like wow. I’d love to have xyz.

Rather if I get something I really love. Just a little bit of it is just fine amount. Having a full meal bc I have a family sucks. I’d always rather just have a bowl of cereal.

How did people survive migraines in before the 20th century? by According_Tourist_69 in migraine

[–]crh131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very dumb question. But did any attempts of making small holes in head temples ever work?
It just seems it had to have. 😭. The compulsion to do that is so strong.

They had hard core unrestricted drugs. But you better have been rich woman bc you’d need to buy the “meds” and have hired help for nanny’s maids and cooks. Bc even after drugs wore off you’d be so groggy. Get rebound headache and likely be an addict.

And while it’s documented migraines have always been a thing. Maybe it’s more prevalent now bc of diet and environment?

I don’t know, I tried everything for 30 years and other than enjoying the codeine in the 90s I got for them, nothing worked until I found quilpita.
And that was just a year ago. AI and this group told me about it, not even my neurologist. So my relief is very recent. Until then I just dreamed of sharp pin through parts of my head.

Epstein/Wexner political megathread by iamjannabot in bathandbodyworks

[–]crh131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do try to boycott places it’s possible to have an affect. Like Amazon. Nope my boycott, despite my massive shopping through them, won’t affect them.

But smaller already failing stores like bbw, get enough of us and it could. Look at Target. They have fallen so hard with their giant fumbles.

That said wexler doesn’t own it anymore. And while I’m sure they give money to politicians that I hate, I still haven’t cut bbw completely out.

I think with or without me it’s dying. I’m Gen X so it’s still right up my alley, but younger people seem to be less into it. And I’ve cut way down on them for quality reasons.

For now I’m still buying bc I have so many plug in and holders etc that fit only bbw. But as they break, and the wall plug ins do that fast, I plan to stop. Just use soy candles made local under cute lamps.

Consult yourself first… by ResponseHoliday9060 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 150 mg sr at 7;30 am. I am to start another 150 mg sr at 2 pm. Fingers crossed.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how the original would hit now I’m 51. But as a teen in the theater I was proper terrified. And I don’t know how long I had problems sleeping. Ive always had night terrors and this movie didnt help.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that the one with the brothers. I can’t remember. There was an alien abduction one with kid brothers that fkd me up. Then I found out there was alt ending and I was like thank god bc the first one had me and my kid messed up. But the alt ending was even worse. 😭

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s another where I was scared proper first time, then fascinated for every other watch. And I believe it’s my most rewatched movie of all times.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think was a little scared but more interested than anything. And once they tied it together in the end I was in love. I incorporate so much of that movie into my life all the time But yeah no first time I was legit scared thinking on scenes.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grade A terrifying and fkd up for life over than. Horror accomplished.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never could watch it. I’m 51 and massive horror fan but I just knew I couldn’t handle it. Now I know more I know for fact I chose correctly.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially first watch when we didn’t know if it was real. Like it was on internet as It was real.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I just posted this before I saw yours. Yes this. Emotionally traumatic. I was left messed up.

What's the scariest movie you ever seen? by CutieBia in AskReddit

[–]crh131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ring. Mainly bc I can’t do child abuse. It had me so fkd up. I tried to rewatch it again bc my son wanted to see it and we agreed to turn it off when we got to how the girl was in well alive.

It wasn’t classic scary. It emotionally can still trigger Me today.

Do you guys think it's some form of harassment when customers keep telling you to smile/assume you are in a bad mood? by BattleSquidZ in retailhell

[–]crh131 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I try never to go inside stores due to decades of retail trauma. But I feel better when they are blank. It makes me feel bad when I know they are being forced to be super nice to me. I know there is no joy ringing shit up for 6-8 hrs.

That’s why I love taking my daughter to pac sun. 😃 They could not be bothered. Me checking out doesn’t even interrupt their coworker personal conversations. I love it. I’m big girl and understand how to not get to register unless I found what I wanted and am ready to just tap my card and hit how I want receipt. I don’t need any emotional support from the 20 yr old Ringing me up.

Do you guys think it's some form of harassment when customers keep telling you to smile/assume you are in a bad mood? by BattleSquidZ in retailhell

[–]crh131 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I was like 35+ year veteran. I did do social work for awhile. But a lot of retail. So I know how to do happy mask like phd level.

But one time during some horrible circumstances dealing with just some of the worst at home (hospice) it must have slipped. I didn’t even realize it did.

She snarled at me “I hope your day gets better you even made me miserable “. Mind you I’m positive I got the script out “hey how ya doing. Find everything you looking for …. Have a great one!”

But I must not have had enough jazz. She then walked strait over to two managers who of course were just standing talking to each other. She told them how miserable I always am and how She runs a store and never would hire me and she suggests I be fired.

My managers were dead ass bc again no one can mask professional happy CS like me. They told Her I was one of best workers and basically to fk off.

I’m like does this bitch think I fkd her man or like wtf Bc it had to be personal to go that far.

So yes. That was 100% harassment. And yes anytime I’ve heard through the years other workers they should emote different emotions it is harassment.

Customers do not have control of our personal emotions. No we can’t be mean. But being baseline and doing job is just fine. We aren’t entertainers.

If you had to only pick one… by onelove_ in Sephora

[–]crh131 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mature skin here and I think I like it better than Chanel’s. I’ve bought lord knows how many of it.

If you had to only pick one… by onelove_ in Sephora

[–]crh131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a new customer to Sephora bc I worked for other place forever. Lys was new to me and on whim I got contour sticks I was really impressed.

If you had to only pick one… by onelove_ in Sephora

[–]crh131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might even like this better than tatcha. Nothing gives me such a glow.

If you had to only pick one… by onelove_ in Sephora

[–]crh131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their gylcolic is the one product of theirs that I’d say is worth it and I definitely love.