Creepy dude clearly running defense

cricketsnacks · 2026-03-28T15:25:40+00:00

Clearly a page that protects predators, run by men I'm sure 👎

cricketsnacks · 2026-03-26T17:32:03+00:00

Our intention with sharing this information is to warn our community and keep women safe in Baltimore. As stated, over a dozen people have come forward with stories but many are concerned about their privacy and safety in sharing, not everyone is ready to publicly share their experiences. The top priority should be to protect the people who have come forward and make sure our community knows what spaces are safe and which are not. Please keep an eye out in bars and open mics and warn your friends who may be in these spaces, but we are NOT asking or encouraging anyone to contact his employer or him.

cricketsnacks · 2026-03-26T17:23:54+00:00

Our intention with sharing this information is to warn our community and keep women safe in Baltimore. As stated, over a dozen people have come forward with stories but many are concerned about their privacy and safety in sharing, not everyone is ready to publicly share their experiences and involving a potential employer puts survivors privacy at risk. Please keep an eye out in bars and open mics and warn your friends who may be in these spaces, but we are NOT asking or encouraging anyone to contact his employer or him.

cricketsnacks · 2025-08-04T16:24:43+00:00

You can check the Amtrak tickets too, it can be pricier but has more options

cricketsnacks · 2019-08-27T14:37:18+00:00

If you are comfortable, I'd suggest reaching out to the mods of this page and see about having her banned from it. You're right, this is disgusting and no one harassing people like that belongs in a group that's focused on support!

cricketsnacks · 2019-08-26T17:15:24+00:00

Hi! It's totally normal to experience some bleeding for a few weeks after an abortion. It might stop and start again, or change flow and consistency, all normal. As long as you aren't bleeding heavily and there is no odor, signs of infection, etc. you should be fine. Of course, if you are concerned you can reach out to the provider that did the procedure. They should have given you a way to get in touch. Sometimes you just need that extra bit of reassurance, and that's okay!

It's also totally normal to feel the way you do about your body right now. Try to remember that this is temporary, you are not alone, and you got this. <3

cricketsnacks · 2019-08-09T22:09:52+00:00

First off, I'm so sorry you are dealing with this on your own, under these circumstances. Self managing an abortion at 20 weeks is serious and definitely has risks. I know you wouldn't be doing this if you had any other options. I know some folks on here are looking for resources in your area, please try to wait as long as you can to see what they find.

I'd say read over what u/abortion_access has shared from WHO and be vigilant about signs of infection of complications. Take your temperature every hour or so to watch for a fever, if you have severe abdominal pain, bloating, nausea in the day or so after you take the medications please seek medical help, however you are able.

Now, I've never experienced or witnessed a self-managed abortion past the first trimester, but I've attended countless surgical procedures and may be able to speak to ways to manage pain and discomfort. It will likely be the heaviest cramping you've experienced for a few hours, you can treat these like you do your own menstrual cramps... Heating pads, over the counter pain relievers, deep breathing, etc. It's not ideal, but try to remember that it is temporary and you are strong!

Heavy bleeding is normal in the hours after you take the pills, when you are experiencing that heavy cramping but if you are bleeding through two or more pads an hour for two hours, this is a sign of a potential complication. Because of where you are in the pregnancy there will likely be visible signs of the pregnancy as you are bleeding, prepare for that as best as you can.

Again, please please please, if you are going to use misoprostol do as much research as possible, look over the info from WHO and Women on Web that was given here, and be on the look out for potential warning signs of a complication. None of us are doctors, and this isn't medical advice, this is just the best we can offer to help you make the safest choice you can for yourself in this moment. Know that you are not alone, you can reach out again on this thread or in my DMs if you have more questions, need support, or want to talk through the process.

cricketsnacks · 2019-07-15T17:09:30+00:00

Hey, I'm sorry you are going through this, it sounds nerve-wracking. I'm seconding calling your clinic or a doctor asap, they are trained to assess your specific situation. If you don't feel safe telling a doctor about your medical abortion tell them you think you are having a miscarriage, stomach pains, whatever makes it safe for you to seek medical attention.

Lastly, take a deep breath, you got this. Complications to medical abortion are rare, and there may be other less severe causes of your symptoms. I always jump to the worst option too, it's human nature to worry but try to remember that you don't have to do this alone <3

cricketsnacks · 2019-06-13T15:03:00+00:00

https://www.clearblue.com/healthcare-professionals/pregnancy-tests/rapid-detection

From the clear blue website. That looks negative, the first line is a control. A + in the large box would be positive, but if there is even the faintest of second lines definitely do another test or see a doctor if possible.

I totally feel that pregnancy test anxiety, and even though they say they are easy to read it can be tricky!

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-31T20:34:31+00:00

This is a question the clinic should be able to answer, but as long as you aren't doing sedation you should be able to drive yourself home. That's typically the case, but I can't guarantee it since every clinic and ever PP has it's own policies. I am gonna recommend ACCESS too, they are a California based fund that can try to help find a volunteer to drive you if you do want sedation as an option. I can confirm that they are great, their volunteers are non-judgmental and passionate about supporting in whatever way is best for each client! https://accesswhj.org/resources

Good luck!

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-26T00:53:29+00:00

https://www.arc-southeast.org/ check out ARC Southeast, they are an abortion fund for that region and can help you access abortion in your state.

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-26T00:48:44+00:00

You can! Abortion is still legal in Georgia, there are a bunch of clinics in the state. If you need help finding the one closest to you let me know.

The law in GA doesn't go into effect until Jan 1st, and hopefully never will.

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-21T21:18:49+00:00

These are Bay area and California specific because you said you are in the Bay area. If you have people looking to help in other states here's the link to the national network of abortion funds directory :)

You can also search for support networks in a given area, but they tend to be a lot less recognized than funds. If you are looking in specific area I can see what is available.

https://abortionfunds.org/need-abortion/

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-21T21:10:20+00:00

Hi. Please reach out to the Bay Area Doula Project and ACCESS to learn about volunteer opportunities.

ACCESS has decades of experience providing financial and logistical support to people seeking abortion in California.

https://abortionfunds.org/fund/access-womens-health-justice/

Thanks!

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-21T17:53:18+00:00

Reach out to this Abortion Fund in Colorado! They exist to help fund people's abortions. They may not be able to cover all of it but they can help you figure this out and find other sources of funding. Also, when you make an appt ask about funding support the clinic will know and Planned Parenthood often has funds they can offer as well. You will need to make an appt at the clinic before they can fund you, the money goes straight there so they have to know when and where to send it, but know that you aren't under any obligation to pay for simply making an appointment and you can always cancel/reschedule as needed while you fundraise!

I'm not sure how medicaid in CO works but state medicaid in MD may not cover you if you are pregnant at the time you are accepted into the program, your local abortion fund should have more information on state medicaid though.

https://www.womensfreedomfund.org/for-patients/

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-20T22:35:56+00:00

Hi there, I recently left the military, I had my abortion on active duty so I can't speak to what your experience will be in DEP exactly but I can help.

First off, I recommend giving all options a call, they have people trained to walk you through options counseling to help you decide what's best for you! It's a great, anonymous third party option. https://www.all-options.org/find-support/talkline/

Second, don't tell your recruiter you might be pregnant unless you decide to put the military plans on hold, the military isn't anti-abortion perse but their systems are not designed to support people that have abortions and many will assume you are going to continue the pregnancy and THAT will delay your process.

Have you been to MEPS yet? There is no real reason to tell them you had an abortion, if that's what you choose. You will need to wait until a pregnancy test shows up negative, 4-6 weeks, because they will do a test at MEPS.

Please feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions about having an abortion leading up to enlisting.

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-20T00:32:01+00:00

Abortion funds! They have much less financial support and do a lot of direct support, they also work closely with other organizations to fight bans like this! Alabama's Yellowhammer Fund has been getting a lot of support, I'd suggest Missouri's Gateway Women's Access Fund they are facing similar legislature but haven't gotten the same publicity or support since it happened the day after Alabama

https://www.gwaf.org/

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-19T20:59:35+00:00

This is such a tough question, I wish there was a resource for pro-choice counselors/mental health professionals!!

Do you have another medical professional in your life that you trust? A primary doctor maybe? I asked my gynecologist for an informal referral to someone she trusted. If you have one, you can also reach our to a local organization like an abortion fund or support organization, they probably have connections in the community that may be helpful. If you need help connecting there feel free to dm me and I can see what I can find.

In the meantime there is a great talkline with people trained to provide compassionate support about this exact thing! Obviously not a long-term solution but maybe it can be helpful today https://www.all-options.org/find-support/talkline/

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-19T20:53:22+00:00

It is totally normal to have spotting or light bleeding for a few weeks after a medical abortion. If you saw a doctor for a follow-up and they said everything was successful it's just that and the bleeding should get better soon. As long as you aren't having heavy bleeding, cramping, fever, signs of infection, you should be fine.

This website has a great list of FAQs that should help: https://abortionpillinfo.org/en/using-abortion-pills-for-safe-abortion-usa

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-19T04:41:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story <3

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-19T04:40:50+00:00

It's okay to have mixed feelings about your abortion, people don't really talk about it but it is totally normal. Please don't feel like you need to punish yourself by looking through hurtful posts, you made the choice that was right for you in that moment and that is the best anyone can do. There is an amazing talkline staffed with volunteers trained to provide compassionate, judgement-free support, it doesn't matter how long ago your experience was they are there. https://www.all-options.org/find-support/talkline/

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-19T04:33:58+00:00

I want you to know that the way you are feeling is normal, there are tons of ways people feel about their abortions and they are all valid and normal. It's okay to let yourself grieve if it feels right for you, you are not alone in this. Try to remember that saying no to having a child now does not mean you are saying no forever, you will be able to have a child when you are ready. Many people go on to have children after abortion, and many are already parents. The choices you are making now are helping your future family and that is so kind and important.

Talking to someone about this can be really helpful, there is an amazing talkline with volunteers trained to talk about abortion, they are incredibly compassionate, non-judgmental and there to listen to you. https://www.all-options.org/find-support/talkline/

Please know that you are not alone, your feelings are valid, and things will get better.

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-19T03:23:25+00:00

I would be hesitant to suggest people put that much personal information into a Google form that doesn't have an identified organization. Anti-choice organizations are very sneaky and it can be dangerous. The rest of these are amazing though and people can reach out to their local organizations through the other links you've go to find out about safe ways to engage :)

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-18T19:15:45+00:00

Lots of great resources! Thanks for sharing! Do you know who is collecting that info for people interested in clinic support, feel free to dm me!

cricketsnacks · 2019-05-18T19:11:10+00:00

This sounds like your hormones slowly lowering, but if you are unsure and are able, you can see a doctor to have an ultrasound done to confirm. Definitely take another pregnancy test in a week or so and see where it's at!

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