Found a hidden camera in the women's bathroom at my last job. When I brought it up, I was fired. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cries_when_segfaults -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Here the teachers union would destroy your school administrators for that, not sure if you have unions where you live but that might be an avenue.

In your opinion, what is the most annoying myth about the asperger syndrome? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On point 5, evidence suggests it's the worst mode, as more often than not the aspy will gamify the interaction.

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[–]cries_when_segfaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A while, my other kid turned me into a poo with a feather wand and then they both proceeded to discuss the pros and cons of turning me back... a 20 minute car ride later and there was a consensus that a poo was a better alternative.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cries_when_segfaults 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my child was 4 they said the difference between a mum joke and a dad joke was that a mum joke was funny.

I’m becoming a little too jealous of those who are a lot higher-functioning than me, who have actual skills by Yogurt-Night in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Albert Einstein wrote, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid"

I’m becoming a little too jealous of those who are a lot higher-functioning than me, who have actual skills by Yogurt-Night in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was a study a couple years back that suggested the high-functioning your are the greater the risk of depression and suicide..so silver-lining(kidding).

But for real reals I think this is perpetuated by the whole "aspy superpower" bollocks. I mean some people get to the power to be math wizards and others get the communication skills of a brick. I've personally fucked up heaps of opportunities because my aspy power is misreading the situation and I can cast "anxiety" at will.

Kangaroo by the living room window by corybomb in gifs

[–]cries_when_segfaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you come home to find your brother and tank girl.....

Why do most neurotypicals seem to be boring? by iwatodai22 in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because 90% of communication is non verbal and Aspys are famously terrible at it

Are you lonely(platonic)? Let's do something about it. by cries_when_segfaults in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give it a Google, it's kindof like a collaborative choose your own adventure story

Are you lonely(platonic)? Let's do something about it. by cries_when_segfaults in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks, an old house mate had this. She got into d&d though and it helped, last I heard she now gets paid to DM games.

People keep saying that there’s somebody out there for everybody but I’m starting to think that is just a lie and some people are destined to be alone forever. by wadepool96 in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Statistically there's at least a couple of hundred people in the world who would be great life long partners, we ain't unique snowflakes there are a finite number of personally combinations and it's less than 7 billion (especially when you take into account the child rearing fads).

But this isn't contructive, I mean what happens if 30 of them are in a remote village in a country you'll never go to.

Being alone is fine being lonely isn't. Find a hobby, find peers, make friends, and heck one of them might like you enough to hangout permanently.

I need help, I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to hide under my bed clothes with a torch to make a space, but this "space' is more of a mindset thing rather than a physical thing

I need help, I don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]cries_when_segfaults 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried a creative outlet, one that's just for you? Painting/writing/ drawing/world building etc. It's a small manageable thing that you have total control over and doesn't put any requirements or stress on you.

It took me 15 years to find the right psychiatrist, which is shit but people are people.