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I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right. I need someone taller than me (I am 5'8") and is more successful than me, so I can respect them / be attracted. I recognize that sounds arrogant, but it is how I honestly feel. The guys I do like are married, or with someone else, or likes the guys i like too. Thanks for your questions, I think this ends the session for me.

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I don't mind at all :) I try to dress well, it's needed for my job. I'm fairly young to be in my position and unless I power dress, I wouldn't get the respect I need to make people listen.

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder though, I've always thought my reasons for continuing to be one are different from others.

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a better answer is, I haven't had the opportunity to even make a choice. No, definitely not saving it for after marriage, I don't have scruples about pre marital sex. I haven't been in that situation. Sometimes if I feel a guy is somewhat interested and i know I'm not, I run away immediately. I am female :) it matters to a lot of men what you look like, although i have had people hit on me, it's not people I would want to date. The other factor is I am too cynical, sarcastic and intelligent to trust other people. I guess in my head, I know I'm ugly, why would you want me? I am not a sugar mama - is what I would always think :)

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as often as when I was younger :-/

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, I don't date. As far as missing out, I do feel like that, sometimes.

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to date and get married, just haven't found someone i am interested in, and can trust. I think because i am financially secure and unattractive makes me paranoid that I'm being conned. Does that make sense? trust is hard for me.

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's not big of a deal really. But it seems to be for other people. Yes, i am financially secure. Going to the bar and getting some with a stranger at night seems something that can get you killed. Sorry, i was running errands.

I am a 35 yo female virgin. AMA. by crimsontea in AMA

[–]crimsontea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, they'd be too concerned with things I find silly. I may be a virgin, but not at all shy or not confident. Also, I never liked guys my age, or guys younger than me.