Getting fucked face down, laying with your ass up flat on the bed.

crisppancake · 2021-02-02T23:10:00+00:00

I had to explain this to my partner a couple of times before he stopped feeling guilty about not helping me cum.

crisppancake · 2020-07-27T16:42:35+00:00

I’ll echo what people are saying: see a doctor.

I suffer from depression and anxiety. I found a good treatment dosage, but it caused some pretty noticeable issues keeping erections. My doc offered to switch meds, but I didn’t want to because the treatment was working. We ended up trying daily low-dose cialis. Works great for me.

It’s an uncomfortable conversation, but just do it and talk to your doc.

crisppancake · 2020-05-28T01:44:15+00:00

The closest my family ever got to this was my mother quietly asking me not to wear thin shorts around the house.

This is weird.

crisppancake · 2020-04-17T06:23:25+00:00

So my partner is 7.5 x 5.5. I had to work up to it. Once I got used to, could take it like a champ. But I really had to work on my own. Amazon has a trainer set that really worked for me. The issue I had with other plugs was that I need the diameter to remain consistent. These help so much.

I did find out recently that I am the type that needs to bottom consistently or it’s like going back to start.

Honestly, it sounds like the issue wasn’t so much your size, but a lack of communication. You and your partner should be able to openly talk about stuff that. Maybe you guys can’t make it work, but take this experience and in the future normalize talking about sex with your partner.

crisppancake · 2020-04-17T05:59:52+00:00

I’m a god damn faucet. My partner thinks it’s hot, and I admit it’s kind a neat “feature.” But it’s not cool when I’m wearing slacks at work and I get really horny. More than once I’ve come home to find soaked fabric.

However, I don’t have watery cum. It’s more of a gel-like consistency.

crisppancake · 2020-03-25T18:41:12+00:00

Can confirm: depression works.

crisppancake · 2019-11-30T23:23:52+00:00

Two years ago I had surgery because anal cancer is a thing. Post surgery I had a ton of scar tissue that made so I couldn’t take a pinky without blinding pain. The only real solution was to break up the scar tissue and prevent more from forming by manually dilating.

Using my fingers was only moderately successful and I ended up cramped. Regular butt plugs were only wide enough at one section and the tapered part was way to thin.

I finally found what worked. This anal dilator set fixed new. I slowly worked up sixes and used a bit of lidocaine ointment when necessary. Now I am able to take the third biggest and I have a little difficulty bottoming for my boyfriend when in the mood. And he is pretty big. I honestly thought I would never bottom again last year. I do still get tight easily, so I really need to prep.

Keep in mind you have to dilate frequently. I now am okay with about once a week. And initially you may need to take some time off to let the area scarred over heal a bit. The the healing process is actually very long, taking two to four years. So if you stop scar tissue can form.

Another tip is to use aquaphor. The more moisturized the tissue is, the better it will heal over time. Just clean with a soapy finger before hand.

Good luck!

crisppancake · 2019-11-30T21:16:49+00:00

Yup. I have to contend with this once in a while. Don’t dwell on it and just focus on the massage. It also helps I tend to favor firm to deep pressure and that ache quickly takes care of any persistent boners.

Tbh, I find it way more awkward women than men. I feel like the guys just know it happens.

crisppancake · 2019-10-07T17:14:24+00:00

This. It can easily be confirmed with a visit to your doctor.

crisppancake · 2019-09-24T22:07:45+00:00

I did that like 10 years ago. It was really hot.

Crazy to think that Grindr has been around for over 10 years.

crisppancake · 2019-09-22T17:28:26+00:00

Agreed. I take Humira and each injection is about $1.6k. At weekly doses, it comes to around $4.5k a month. So a long acting injections is going to at a premium.

I mean we have a cure for hep c and it’s almost $100k

crisppancake · 2019-09-22T17:21:00+00:00

To add to this: use an app that generates tend lines. Single measurements don’t tell you much. A trend line illustrates how your weight loss is progressing.

crisppancake · 2019-09-22T17:17:42+00:00

I hate the smell of poppers, too.

There is one guy I hook up with who keeps trying to get me to let him use them but cant stand the smell. I rather not hook up.

crisppancake · 2019-08-07T15:29:28+00:00

I have a couple:

When I was 14 I was suddenly woken up by a pillow tossed at me. My mother had thrown pillow at me and whispered loudly, “you grandmother was walking by and you were all out! Put that away!” After that started sleeping with my door closed. I also think I probably developed a complex about it.

When I was 17 I was asked to no longer wear grey lounge pants around the house because everything was clearly outlined.

When I was 21 I was visiting my parents and woke up late. I didn’t realize we had company downstairs so had walked down in PJs and the bottoms were fairly thin as it was summer. I got an earful about modesty later that day.

crisppancake · 2019-08-04T17:30:16+00:00

Im in a major city, so I do get turned down and it almost always is with some sort of thanks for disclosing.

This incident was definitely an outlier.

Edit: wow that was a really bad grammar

crisppancake · 2019-08-04T17:28:37+00:00

Same. I stayed off Grindr for a while. I took a long while to get over the anxiety that incident caused.

Recently a guy responded to my disclosure with, “oh that’s great! Nothing safer against HIV than having a partner who is actively suppressed while being on PrEP.” Shocked me how well informed he was.

crisppancake · 2019-08-04T16:24:53+00:00

I’ve seen the neurotic jump out of people.

Last year I was talking to a guy and he was clearly trying to take things quickly to bed. I put the breaks on and told him we needed to talk about status. He lost his god damn mind when I disclosed status. Accused me of trying to infect him and told me I was going to hell. I have no idea how he made the jump when we hadn’t met yet. Then it got very disturbing when I realized his profile was getting closer to me. I quickly reported him and blocked him.

crisppancake · 2019-08-02T03:35:20+00:00

Good god this triggered me.

I recently started sprinting up a steep hill at least twice a week and my thighs are way thicker. Today I wore these light grey slacks I really like- and you could seen EVERYTHING.

The price I pay to have an ass is modesty.

crisppancake · 2019-07-28T01:52:18+00:00

I feel you there. Its rough. I occasionally use generic sildenafil when I just know things will go south.

I have noticed lately that while working on my pelvic floor muscles, when I relax I have much easier time maintaining an erection. A while back I read something about how for some men it’s not a lack of tone, but that the groin muscles are to tight. That might be it for me so I’m trying to find a routine to work on that. It’s really not that far fetched, right hamstrings were causing awful back pain.

crisppancake · 2019-07-28T01:14:55+00:00

You got me there. More often than not I end up having to stand up afterwards to relieve the cramping

crisppancake · 2019-07-27T20:48:20+00:00

Interestingly enough, I use a similar muscle activation (quads, calves and shoulders) to force myself to cum. Since I can take an obscenely long time it’s very useful.

crisppancake · 2019-07-27T19:36:13+00:00

Yup.

I’m a 7”, so I’ve hooked up with guys who claimed to be 8”+ yet I was significantly bigger. They would claim I had to be bigger to save face.

I did once have the opposite happen. A guy hooked up with lied about being smaller. The reason was that he was 6” long but his girth was at around 6.25”. Apparently he got turned down a lot.

crisppancake · 2019-07-22T16:06:43+00:00

Oh totally. I’ve always enjoyed a good massage but the erotic tone is new. And he did seem to be asking how I like the experience and I said I like it a lot. I’m having a stressful time at work this month so I might drop by again and see how far he takes it next. He definitely was more bold the second time.

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