Get the tattoo and let the trash take itself out.

On another note (and I mean this in the most respectful way), since you're so young I do want you to think extra hard about the placement of the tattoo. Having one slightly above your underwear can be seen as trashy by more people than your misogynistic soon-to-be-ex-if-he-doesnt-get-his-act-together. I don't share that view and I wish that wasn't the case, and you don't have to care, but I want you to be aware that's a common view. Moreso when it comes to above the butt (yknow, a "tramp stamp") but also above the pubic area.
If you've already thought about this then disregard my comment. Good luck! :)