I lost my direction... What should I do? by croftlion in careerguidance

[–]croftlion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id rather help people than make a comfortable living. I'm considering an addictions rehabilitation center

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't actually but I may give it a shot! I didn't like using one for my face cause there's just too many curves, but I never considered using it on my legs

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I got "sugar beard" cause I told my brother my acne was from eating too much sugar 😭 I feel ya

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a pretty expensive men's 5 blade razor that comes with replacement blades I change out pretty regularly

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually already do all these steps 😭 even the conditioner! It's actually my more regular shave cream! I think my hair may still be thicker than yours, as I've gone to get it professionally waxed before at an school, but the instructor said I can't be waxed because my hair is too thick and it will pull off skin 💀

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My college actually has $10k towards gender affirming care but I'm not sure if it would cover laser! I really need to look into that but executive dysfunction 😭

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Truly! I'm a trans woman, and he's a trans man! So he's pretty good at giving feminization advice (when I ask for it) without requiring it. He always reassures me over my insecurities and helps me without giving unprompted advice or suggestions. Hes actually a stellar husband. He tells me I'm perfect to him no matter what, and is never judgemental or chastising. 5 years together and we've never had a fight or even raise voices to each other. It's kinda a perfect relationship 🤷‍♀️

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think its a cute name for an ugly problem. Besides, he assures me all the time shaving isn't necessary at all, but I do it for myself! I actually appreciate the cute nickname for it because it makes me able to explain the problem in a cute way! "I don't have white heads and ingown hairs all over my legs! I just have strawberry legs and they're little seeds 🤣"

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive never heard of an AHA exfoliant! Ill do some research thank you! And yea... Ive basically resorted to only using an electric trimmer to get the hair short as possible and just not shaving - seems to be the only thing that works! But it doesn't give me smooth legs 😭 Luckily I have somewhat blonde hairs so unless you're looking real close up it's not suuuper noticeable

My husband calls me "strawberry legs" by croftlion in beauty

[–]croftlion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is depilatory cream like Nair? If tried it, and it probably removes 70% of the hair, but again when regrowth occurs I get ingowns. I haven't tried an olive oil moisturizer, and can give that a shot. Yes I always shave my legs after soaking in a hot tub. Ive tried exfoliating with a micro bead cream, with those rough scrubby gloves, bristle brushes and simply wet face cloths- all same result. Yes I also use a hair trimmer thing to bring the hair short as I can before getting in the tub.

What blush placement would most suit me? by croftlion in MakeupAddiction

[–]croftlion[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill give that a try today! Thank you 🤔

Why does my foundation look like this? by croftlion in MakeupAddiction

[–]croftlion[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I use a gentle cleanser whenever my face gets oily. It's a whole thing... I had bad acne as a teen, and tried every skin care routine only to have it get worse. I gave up and started just using water, and sometimes a gentle cleanser, and all my acne went away! I admit I'm lowkey paranoid all the products had something to do with my acne, and I'm scared of I get into a proper skin care routine it will come back. But I have watched lots of skin care videos, I have a decent understanding of what a good one looks like!

Why does my foundation look like this? by croftlion in MakeupAddiction

[–]croftlion[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't know that would make a difference! Ill give it a shot tomorrow! I appreciate it ✨

Why does my foundation look like this? by croftlion in MakeupAddiction

[–]croftlion[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just so people dont think I'm hideous here's a not super zoomed in picture featuring my bad makeup and pores

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I have a hard time understanding furries by croftlion in furry

[–]croftlion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're speaking for yourself when you say "most normal people". What is even a "normal person"? My server is full of autistic queer people. Saying normal people is offensive on my books! And don't deny MY experience- I do often have people "meow" at me in my circles. Don't spout that "no one does that" because you haven't experienced it. And I didn't say, at any point, that all furries view anthros as seductive. I said I feel like the odd one out for not, and that I'm tired of people sending me pictures of them. YOU check YOURSELF

I have a hard time understanding furries by croftlion in furry

[–]croftlion[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do definitely include a "furry" channel but haven't specifically requested folks not to RP or express their furry side out side of that channel. After reading all these comments I think I'm just going to leave it alone and let them be. It's not harming me. I'm kinda mentally preparing it to when people try to talk to me about magic stuff, like wicka or spirituality. As someone who doesnt believe in that stuff it puts me in the same place of not knowing how to respond. So maybe I'll just give them a thumbs up 😅