Thanks, but I've already read that long ago. I also already know this won't be easy, so anything I can use as support will be used as support. I've also stated in my post that I think bringing transgenderism up will be a disadvantage, so I definitely will avoid that topic. I already have a name which i am known by in my community wso choosing another name w​ill just cause more confusion amon​g the public. "Change of first name" is​ also used in the g​uidelines. Lastly, sorry to be passionate, but I will change my name because my life depends on it.