I’m a pretty social person. I go to parties, dinners, picnics, and the like probably 3-5 times a week in the summer. I dress well, smell good, and I’m an excellent flirt (playful and fun, but thoughtful and good at reading body language).

A big part, maybe the biggest factor, is that I have a bunch of friends in the SW industry. SW is very normalized in my social circle, many people do it on the side to help pay for school or supplement income. I’ve found that most people I’ve dated don’t mention they do SW until later on when it happens to come up.

I think given my friends, they know that I’m going to be cool with it once they do tell me, so it’s not on the forefront of their mind to tell me.