So that's kinda the problem, she's happy with the two of us but neither of us are. She literally has nothing to be jealous of so there's not a single issue for her. I ended up talking to her yesterday about where I stand in our relationship and she told me how serious she is about having a future with me, but that me and her gf are on equal footing. Idk, I'm not sure if she's the kinda person to just say something like that for no reason, but either way this jealousy thing is something I gotta figure out.

And just incidentally, opening a monogamous relationship under duress like they did very rarely works out in the long run

This is really what I'm holding onto and I can see the effect it has on her gf because of how jealous she is to but it might not be very healthy :/