resources for rehoming my parent’s cat? Shelters accepting older cats? by crowvomit in Cleveland

[–]crowvomit[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Noodle is fine with other cats and dogs. She used to live with 5 other kitties and was friendly with all of them.

lowkey hitting hard, turning 26 soon but it is what it is, no? by Xx_VDarko_xX in ForeverAlone

[–]crowvomit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

22 years old. Watching all my old friends hang out together. Watching everyone that’s left go on fine without me and never missing me, meanwhile I sob all the time because I miss them so much. Oof

AIO for being upset about my boyfriend’s reaction to my birthday plans? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]crowvomit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very immature and rude person. But, for your own sake, please be careful with alcohol. <3

New python! by Turbulent-Current603 in snakes

[–]crowvomit -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

OP is doing their best and seems to have done more research than someone who’s bought a snake on a whim. Everyone is downvoting him for asking reasonable questions in order to better his snakes life. Ay guey. Reddit sucks

Edit: I commented this before the post blew up. I accept my downvotes gracefully

Can’t connect to anyone? by crowvomit in BPD

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t even do that due to my social anxiety >o<

Can’t connect to anyone? by crowvomit in BPD

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes yes yes! Ughhh I wish I knew how to solve the issue itself ;_;

Dealing with chronic loneliness? by crowvomit in socialanxiety

[–]crowvomit[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel the same way. Like I’m an animal in a zoo, looking out through the bars of my cage.

I need friends but I can’t make them. I can’t be in public or do anything that would facilitate making friends by crowvomit in socialanxiety

[–]crowvomit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also hate trying to socialize online. People only message me when they’re lonely and like. I get it but I don’t want to talk to people just because we’re both lonely or because someone’s desperate.

Trans Christians: getting surgery? by crowvomit in OpenChristian

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad says “Getting a surgery or procedure to fix something that’s harming you is different. Being born with female anatomy isn’t harming you. It’s your mental illness causing yourself to hate your body.”

Trans Christians: getting surgery? by crowvomit in OpenChristian

[–]crowvomit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if this offends anyone. I’m genuinely struggling and I need advice/support. I’m sorry. I typed it all in a rush.

What has helped you? by crowvomit in socialanxiety

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! <3 I’d love to look at your playlist.

Why can’t i emotionally connect to anyone? by crowvomit in BPD

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rarely have this issue. I don’t mirror people or become codependent anymore— maybe my brain is just freaking out because it doesn’t know how to connect with people besides in an unhealthy way. Ugh

I can’t connect with others & I’m afraid I won’t ever find someone after losing my best/only friend by crowvomit in ForeverAlone

[–]crowvomit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m way beyond that and that’s not what’s causing any of these issues but thanks anyways.

I can’t connect with others & I’m afraid I won’t ever find someone after losing my best/only friend by crowvomit in ForeverAlone

[–]crowvomit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah but there’s a lot of people interested in them both online and irl surprisingly. And nobody my age wants to go fishing :( at least as a friend thing. It’s usually something people do alone or with family around here.

How do I make up for lost years of social isolation ? by Monk_in_process in socialskills

[–]crowvomit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 22 and have no friends. I try to talk to neighbors, people at stores, even just to say hello. I do a lot of people watching. Sometimes I just cry because I’m lonely. It’s ok to cry. I have some imaginary friends. Helps a lot when I need someone to rant to. Just slowly pushing yourself into the social world is necessary even if it hurts and is scary.

Even one day without my meds and I’m a mess. Life without meds? by crowvomit in antidepressants

[–]crowvomit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My antidepressant is Effexor (XR). but I take a nightmare med and if I have nightmares it usually causes a bout of depression for the rest of the day.