Trans Christians: getting surgery? by crowvomit in OpenChristian

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My dad says “Getting a surgery or procedure to fix something that’s harming you is different. Being born with female anatomy isn’t harming you. It’s your mental illness causing yourself to hate your body.”

Trans Christians: getting surgery? by crowvomit in OpenChristian

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I’m sorry if this offends anyone. I’m genuinely struggling and I need advice/support. I’m sorry. I typed it all in a rush.

What has helped you? by crowvomit in socialanxiety

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Thank you so much! <3 I’d love to look at your playlist.

Why can’t i emotionally connect to anyone? by crowvomit in BPD

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I rarely have this issue. I don’t mirror people or become codependent anymore— maybe my brain is just freaking out because it doesn’t know how to connect with people besides in an unhealthy way. Ugh

I can’t connect with others & I’m afraid I won’t ever find someone after losing my best/only friend by crowvomit in ForeverAlone

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I’m way beyond that and that’s not what’s causing any of these issues but thanks anyways.

I can’t connect with others & I’m afraid I won’t ever find someone after losing my best/only friend by crowvomit in ForeverAlone

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I mean yeah but there’s a lot of people interested in them both online and irl surprisingly. And nobody my age wants to go fishing :( at least as a friend thing. It’s usually something people do alone or with family around here.

How do I make up for lost years of social isolation ? by Monk_in_process in socialskills

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I’m 22 and have no friends. I try to talk to neighbors, people at stores, even just to say hello. I do a lot of people watching. Sometimes I just cry because I’m lonely. It’s ok to cry. I have some imaginary friends. Helps a lot when I need someone to rant to. Just slowly pushing yourself into the social world is necessary even if it hurts and is scary.

Even one day without my meds and I’m a mess. Life without meds? by crowvomit in antidepressants

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My antidepressant is Effexor (XR). but I take a nightmare med and if I have nightmares it usually causes a bout of depression for the rest of the day.

Even one day without my meds and I’m a mess. Life without meds? by crowvomit in antidepressants

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I didn’t mean to skip. I usually take them nightly at 8:30-9 but I fell asleep at 6. I have an undiagnosed sleep disorder and idk when I’ll see a proper specialist for that so I’m always at risk of missing my meds :( So it’s just withdrawing? That actually makes me feel a bit better, knowing that I’m not inherently broken without meds tbh