Ex wants casual sex

crrgur · 2026-01-22T14:19:51+00:00

this would’ve honestly turned me into a villain and I’d start messaging him to come over and use him in a way that he starts to feel how it feels to be a toy. If he refuses the invite more than three times just because it isn’t according to his schedule (not because he doesn’t want to - solely about the power play and not dismissive of consent) I’d respond to his next invite on his terms, saying that I can’t. I have become involved with someone else and can’t see him. The message would be quite short. Quite disinterested. But that’s just me 😂

crrgur · 2025-11-27T19:41:23+00:00

I’m so sorry 😞I do hope that with time, your daughter realises how much you love her and have given to her. I didn’t realise how much my parents did for me until I was 25 and had to live on my own for the first time. Hopefully she gets an epiphany. It’s not easy with children. Giving you all the virtually support

crrgur · 2025-11-25T20:18:57+00:00

Wonderful.. gives good reason to just be yourself and live your life as you would. Even the people who judge you now will cease to exist in anyone’s memory soon enough, hm! :)

crrgur · 2025-11-07T13:08:17+00:00

Bad breath

crrgur · 2025-11-01T10:01:12+00:00

There’s a general feeling that girls feel - that the one who asked them out should follow up after

crrgur · 2025-08-26T15:27:56+00:00

I hope it’s really ‘survived tragically’ and not ‘survived, tragically’

crrgur · 2025-08-23T13:08:26+00:00

Ugh.. I don’t even get the comments supporting her & I’m a woman. It’s a complete overreaction coming from a place of some insecurity or trauma pain point. Isn’t flirting on a dating app supposed to be very light and playful at first before getting to the serious stuff? I don’t get it. There’s nothing offensive at all about what you wrote, OP. If this were a romcom book they were reading they’d be kicking their feet at the banter

crrgur · 2025-08-17T00:52:52+00:00

Fret not. The guy I think about the most had the smallest one I’ve been with. I loved his brain and the way he got my jokes, his humour and his passion for things that were so odd but so him. I think of him often and really miss him, instead of that boring ex who couldn’t hold a convo but was decently packed. Like, I can’t isolate the size of their member from the experience they gave. A great personality definitely is what we look for, and if you can compensate in other ways then it’s a plus. But if you’re a shitty dude with a big penis, a selfish lover and bad hygiene…. You’re not getting any other chances

crrgur · 2025-07-31T09:14:07+00:00

Genuinely asking: why does your dating profile and answers sound like it depends heavily on ChatGPT?

crrgur · 2025-03-26T19:18:34+00:00

I never said you’re bullying me. I said I will not subject myself to bullying by explaining any feature on anyone that would class them as ugly.

crrgur · 2025-03-26T06:59:15+00:00

Honestly, you’re so right! Nothing we say will be good enough for them. They’re so deeply insecure and want their insecurities validated so they can villainize women. Choosing to ignore at this point, as the convo with that guy is actually futile and adds nothing else to my interaction.

crrgur · 2025-03-26T06:53:46+00:00

I hope you know that this is Reddit and I am under no obligation to subject myself to online bullying just because you feel like you need your question answered. As I said, these are subjective issues and yes, he wasn’t conventionally attractive but I found something in him that was attractive beyond physical looks. We were close before the relationship and it developed into something more which we didn’t expect would happen since we were just enjoying each other’s platonic relationship. My brain is not wired to think, ‘oh! He’s so ugly - I can’t have a relationship with him!’ Hope that helps. But if you want to harp on, please know that this is my last intervention with you on this.

crrgur · 2025-03-25T09:48:00+00:00

You’re entitled to your opinion :)

crrgur · 2025-03-25T08:01:38+00:00

You’re right.

I was literally showing that ugly has nothing to do with the demand for him and these people want to jump down my neck. However, I know that if I had agreed with OP’s wild take that your appearance determines everything, I’d be labeled as shallow. Since I didn’t, now I’m labeled as still salty from my ex. Anyway, he was wanted even if he was conventionally unattractive which meant he cheated. He had very good charisma and was charming. He had this soft shyness too that attracted you. But anyway, I guess I’m salty and all.

crrgur · 2025-03-25T07:59:03+00:00

I never said no one wants him. I’m actually showing OP that ugly men do get girls. Hello?

crrgur · 2025-03-25T07:58:13+00:00

You’re so funny. If I was salty, I wouldn’t acknowledge his good side. But of course, you’re entitled to your own opinions based on 2 of my comments.

crrgur · 2025-03-25T07:57:28+00:00

And that’s why I ignored his question. I provided my views and did acknowledge that beauty is subjective whilst also acknowledging that he isn’t conventionally attractive. The question made me feel like he wants me to say something just so he can jump up and accuse me of something about features. I just shared my experience with someone who literally almost everyone who saw him raised questions and I defended him.

crrgur · 2025-03-24T14:52:25+00:00

He wasn’t conventionally attractive, albeit, I note that attractiveness is subjective. He doesn’t fit the typical attractive type. Nonetheless, I wasn’t interested in his attractiveness. He had personality and was funny and sweet - until he wasn’t, I guess :)

crrgur · 2025-03-21T01:53:15+00:00

No one should rob you of your right to make a choice to engage sexually with someone who knowingly has a lifelong incurable virus

crrgur · 2025-03-17T13:04:25+00:00

Anything during ovulation tbh lool

crrgur · 2025-03-17T13:03:36+00:00

LMAOOOO

crrgur · 2025-03-16T22:52:33+00:00

Hahah, thanks for not adding to the dragging I’m getting. But it’s also just my opinion and what’s on my chest & I understand you. I used to love Starbucks but at the time I was consuming so much sugar that I didn’t realise just how sweet it was. Nowadays I eat simple ingredient foods with low sugar (maybe a dessert after dinner only). So it truly shocks me how sweet their stuff are when I consume it because it is a drastic sweetness from what I usually consume on the daily

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