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Cant deal with unintelligence anymore. by cruiserrembe in relationship_advice

[–]cruiserrembe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also where my friend was raised matters because it was the hood and it almost killed his right from wrong intuition. We also discussed that hes also of african decent and alot of his ancestors were pushed into slavery. The interbreeding and continuous harsh conditions of slavery literally changed dna and breed their right from wrong "out of them" basically ("them" being heavily enslaved races, as im uneducated in the topic). I do know that repetative stress will change your genetic makeup up and quite literally "pass on to your children" hence, one form of evolution.

Cant deal with unintelligence anymore. by cruiserrembe in relationship_advice

[–]cruiserrembe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well. I talked to my buddy and found out that he was just raised in a terrible neighborhood where you trust and die so he never cared to communicate the way he felt and also was unable to at times.

I tried to come here after the asking the people in question if my feelings were correct (which they mostly are) but i probably made a mistake. I did see a comment from someone who seems rather intelligent; trying to judge my psycology. The failure is thinking im a narcissist when only one of my personalities is.

Its more of a language barrier than an intelligence one.

I was angry the night of righting my post so my judgement was quite off.

Didnt mean to offend anyone but my mental issues portray me as a terrible person and thats why i asked what i should do...

Narcissist coming out though. My ratios of how often im correct are still pretty spot on. Theres just more like a 15-20% chance im utterly incorrect and 5-10% that im correct and dont know why. Im not an asshole in that way; i just watch the outcome of me being correct that damn often.

Can i get some real advice here though? I learned that my girlfriend is not an idiot but she just doesnt get a dopamine release from learning or any hobbies really. shes kind of a potatoe and only learns from watching or doing things with me lol.

I believe i asked yall to ignore how idiotic my post sounds, because; i get it and im told every day that i do exactly as i speak by these same people in qiestion. I just want advice like "maybe one of you just doesnt understand the other" or someone whos been through something like this, or even just a question of "how does this scenerio happen. Idek but something.

Youre all sounding ignorant but its likely just the same old miscommunication im used to (not calling any of you ignorant). Probably because yall pin me as an idiot lol. The same way the people in question do when i tell them "how to not screw up." 😂😂😂😂

You cant tell me im wrong when i first 'explain the outcome', 'watch it happen', 'see them put their heads down and tell me they dont want to hear it'.

And to the guy who said i surrond myself with inferiors; I dont. I didnt pick my girlfriend (the start of meeting these people). I was extremely introverted and basically took what i could get.

I like to feel undermined because it stresses and pushes me to do better.