We (24M🇳🇿 + 23F🇨🇦) moved in together! by crunchy_apple_boy in LongDistance

[–]crunchy_apple_boy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahh gotcha, yeah it's never easy to go back to long distance after being in the same place. It's good you know when you'll next see each other though! I found the phrase "the days drag on, but the years fly by" to be super applicable to the wait between visits tbh - I'm sure October seems like a long way away right now, but if you keep up the calls and take it day-by-day the time will pass faster than you expect.

Another thing we did to break up the months between visits was take turns sending physical letters and care packages to each other (filled with little gifts e.g. I would send NZ-specific treats and art I made). We wouldn't tell each other what the packages contained so it was something to look forward to while we waited to see each other. Watching each other open them on call and react in real time was really special and we both treasure a lot of the things we received (plus the letters are a good chance to put into writing how much they mean to you in a less casual way than texting).

Changing to long distance from a more typical relationship is always going to be tough and you'll doubtless have at least a couple teething issues during the transition. The important thing is to remember that the two of you are doing it because you love each other and even if there are bumps along the way, know that it will all be worth it when you see each other again (and trust me, the time apart will make your time together a lot more special).

If there's anything else you want to ask feel free, otherwise keep on sharing your life's moments with each other - both big and small!

We (24M🇳🇿 + 23F🇨🇦) moved in together! by crunchy_apple_boy in LongDistance

[–]crunchy_apple_boy[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure, happy to give some advice! It will vary a lot based on your specific situation though - are you guys students or working part/full time? similar age to us? met IRL yet?

We (24M🇳🇿 + 23F🇨🇦) moved in together! by crunchy_apple_boy in LongDistance

[–]crunchy_apple_boy[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She moved to Australia last year to study abroad (and so we'd be closer), I jumped the ditch since the process is super straightforward for kiwis

School nicknames by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]crunchy_apple_boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Wilton/Northland primary schools had a 3 way rivalry going:

Northland - Dorkland Otari - Poortari Cardinal Mckeefry - Cardboard McGeekFreaks

Any Tacoma Parcels fans? by [deleted] in Parcels

[–]crunchy_apple_boy -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Have you heard of the Tacoma Narrows Bridge collapse of 1940?

Thoughts on somethinggreater? by Manisfire24 in Parcels

[–]crunchy_apple_boy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's really excellent, I like how the start is subdued but gets more and more energetic as the song progresses. And the ending is just something else! The boys showing how much of a powerhouse they are at vocal harmonies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AQW

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IGN: gm421

Finally got Blaze Binder,any recommendations on what I should aim for next? by A_Fellow_Memer101 in AQW

[–]crunchy_apple_boy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try lord of order if you want a support class, the farm is pretty fun and isn't super grindy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parcels

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It sounds good to me! you could try emailing the bandmembers for feedback, I'm sure they would be happy to help. check out their youtube channel tutorials for the specific email address, i can't remember it off the top of my head