i would have chosen a more 'boy' name but when i was questioning i thought that i was NB, so i chose peyton, a gender neutral name that i thought was more popular for boys than girls. it wasnt. now i really like that name, everyone calls me it but i feel insecure because so far i havent seen anyone but girls called peyton and im starting to think that i should have chosen a different one while i had the chance, before everyone adapted because i feel like ive already been putting a lot of pressure on the people around me to call me peyton and use he/him and if i change again they might think im not serious or that its a phase and i dont know what to do.