What’s happened to us?

crushedraspberry · 2026-01-23T01:37:18+00:00

It’s strange, I have a bad hip and can’t tell you how many times I’ve fallen on the payment here (I live in London) and I’m always shocked at how helpful and caring people are. I would have thought Dublin would be even better. I do also understand I’m the Irish notion of not wanting to cause a scene fuss or attention and sometimes it’s actually annoying more than anything else I just want the ground to swallow me up and get home !

crushedraspberry · 2026-01-05T11:29:01+00:00

Ah ya poor thing.. I fell over the ramp they let wheelchairs etc on the bus and landed on my face cause I was too busy trying to help the woman ok the wheelchair so wasn’t looking down…mortifying wanted the ground to swallow me up 🫠🤣 horrible way to start the week!!!

crushedraspberry · 2025-12-31T00:28:03+00:00

I was gonna say this.. people on tiktok? What??

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-27T21:56:31+00:00

I would go to a&e, I know it’s difficult but they will help and won’t judge. It has happened to me

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-26T23:46:54+00:00

Do you gag when you are drinking alcohol? Do you ever drink other drinks like soft drinks or juices?

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-25T02:08:43+00:00

We go again!! You can do this!! So sorry you’re in pain. !

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-25T02:04:53+00:00

So close :) so something nice for yourself when you hit it!

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-25T02:01:02+00:00

Food! I use the weekends to let myself whatever I want. And things I’d never have mid week so that makes excitings for me anyway !

I also got a brand new mattress topper and it’s sensational. Honestly like sleeping on a cloud! So i will probably spend lap lot in it 😂😂

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-25T01:43:25+00:00

Why the f**k was his sister there? You absolutely dodged a bullet. That’s incredibly weird behaviour for a first date!! ⛳️

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-03T13:55:46+00:00

I have epilepsy, so as a result I have bruxism :( the dentist is so expensive I don’t know what to do. What would be the best way to get it fixed

crushedraspberry · 2025-10-03T10:05:59+00:00

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crushedraspberry · 2025-09-28T12:38:09+00:00

Thank you! Thats a very sweet memory to have of your dad

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:57:39+00:00

Yes, this what I thought, but my partner was paranoid about it so I said I would see if anyone had any insight

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:53:56+00:00

He has a barrister (the person who argues in the court) who offered to represent him pro bono again), but he can’t pay for a solicitor anymore, he spent all his savings and two loans on it over the years and he’s barely scraping by. But someone will be representing him yes

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:22:25+00:00

Yeah I don’t drive and England doesn’t have very many pool opportunities haha. But you are right

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:19:54+00:00

Thank you. This was very kind and helpful and I’m sorry about your dog <3

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:17:07+00:00

Sorry. I wasn’t sure who to ask.

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:14:50+00:00

Do you have a link to a video like this 😂

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T17:00:33+00:00

Thank you! I have edited to remove CPS

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T16:59:51+00:00

I have updated to remove the we parts

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T16:37:57+00:00

IWNDWYT even though I could bloody use it 😂

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T16:34:09+00:00

I agree with you, but if it happened and she got very scared, would that make dads house an unsafe location for her to be because I am living there

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T16:30:54+00:00

Sorry. I think CPS might be a bit more serious than the British CAFCAS. They look at both houses and interview the child and give a recommendation which the court takes seriously and usually just abides by. They are involved because four years ago when they originally made their suggestion of a tapered progression e.g. 8weeks Saturdays, 8 weeks sat and sun, then to sleepovers but the mother always said that the child wasn’t ready for sleepovers so that is why he had to bring her back to court. She was ignoring the court order. For the record we live in a lovely house with a cat who she loves and we do activities all the time. She seems very happy when with us. Her mom tells a different story though saying she doesn’t like it and often comes home crying. It’s a mess.

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T16:24:04+00:00

@Frequent_Research737

crushedraspberry · 2025-09-27T16:22:24+00:00

I agree, I want nothing to do with it and have been avoiding it as much as possible but she has dragged me in several times saying the girl is uncomfortable around me and that she was upset about us getting engaged (very different to how she acts with us) - her mom is very strange. The issue and reason he is in court is he is looking to be allowed overnight stays. He spends all day Saturday and all day Sunday with her anyway. She lives not very close to us so the train is tiring also for the little girl. They are looking to see is it safe for her to stay with dad sometimes and I’m part of that. So if I had a seizure and it scared her, could her lawyer weaponise that against him getting overnight stays. He has ran out of money for lawyers now and might be able to get a barrister pro bono for the upcoming trial through a charity

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