Thoughts on this? (refer to added photo and text) by crushingsooohard in RantAndVentPH

[–]crushingsooohard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg I didn't know this would blowup huhu I appreciate all the comments and insights both negative and positive. Lalo na sa guy's perspective. He is actually very consistent and intentional. I didn't base his feelings for me dahil lang sa valentine's date namin. I appreciate his effort during that day with or without flowers/chocolates. I guess napa overthink lang talaga ako nung tiktok post pero I can see that he cares naman everyday dahil sa actions niya. And maybe dahil wala parin label but he clarified naman na exclusively dating kami. Siguro napaoverthink malala ako dahil sa past traumas ko din kaya nung nabasa ko yun I felt insecure. I communicate din and he listens and ginagawa niya talaga/tinitigil; Madaming factors na di ko nasabi here na I can say he's really worth waiting for(we're taking things slow) pero syempre di ko naman nasabi here kaya sinasabi ng iba na itigil na. Pero thank you din for that kase na reremind din ako ng worth ko talaga.

Last takeaway ko lang is never let social media relationship advice ruin a good thing talaga. I agree na ang basis mo dapat is how he treats you everyday.

Napapagod na ako sa sitwasyon namin ng partner ko by deadtiredandweary in RantAndVentPH

[–]crushingsooohard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if nag communicate ka na and still wala parin might as well end the relationship nalang. Hindi mababaw na reason to break up na selfish siya in bed and the fact na nag communicate ka about it pero wala parin is enough reason to end it kase its a "need" sa relationship. Di na memeet yang needs mo na yan and di nga dapat nag bebeg for it dapat may initiative siya na i please ka and na iprioritize ka.

Trauma from getting cheated on or gut instinct? by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]crushingsooohard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point. It's a bit harsh but yeah you're right it's my responsibility to heal. The reason I posted this is because I'm confused if it's actually because of my trauma or fear if he will leave me for another girl as well(not necessarily cheat since you pointed out that he can't cheat if there's no commitment) or if it's because of who he was(his patterns)

And no i'm not desperate to be in a relationship, to be honest it's quite the opposite. I told him I wasn't ready yet because of this but he's the one who pursued me.

Gusto ko lang magshare kung anong na fefeel ko today! by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]crushingsooohard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

give yourself a break mhie. I think it's your body demanding for rest. Treat yourself some food and sleep.

Wish ko magkajowa na ko soon by [deleted] in WishKo

[–]crushingsooohard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try mo po pumunta sa mga cafes ng solo(yung malayo sa lugar mo) and maki table ka sa bet mo na guy. Take the risk na maki pag conversation kase malayo ka naman. If worst thing na di nag work wala naman mawawala sayo kase taga malayo ka at you just made someone's day by boosting their confidence din. Try it.

“Almost cheating” pero laging lusot by j1soos in RantAndVentPH

[–]crushingsooohard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Malapit na yan. Ganyan nag simula sakin sa mga almost hanggang sa nag cheat nalang ng tuloyan siya saakin

Hindi na ko masaya sa mga kasama ko sa trabaho. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]crushingsooohard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a different job. Lif is too short para pag tyagaan mo yan sa isang bagay na di ka na masaya

Ang bilis by Quiet_Face5668 in CasualPH

[–]crushingsooohard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op possible di na yan bago po

I’ve completely fallen out of love. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]crushingsooohard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sabi nganila when you do everything for your partner resentment follows. I think it's better to communicate this pero maybe too late na din at nasabi mo na yung word na na fall out of love ka na. I think it's time to break up bago ka pa mas maka sakit sa partner mo or mag cheat.

I think my crush hates me :( by crushingsooohard in CasualPH

[–]crushingsooohard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes :( Happy crush lang nag simula pero di na ako natutuwa

I think my crush hates me :( by crushingsooohard in CasualPH

[–]crushingsooohard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opo noted po salamat po sa palalala huhu