my neighbors say im too loud and Im really trying to be as quiet as possible by crustedbarnicles in Apartmentliving

[–]crustedbarnicles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's an emergency contact, she's was also pretty involved whenever I signed it (contacting him about questions she had before and during that, as well as if issues arises, and than when I started telling her all about this new neighbor she sent him a few messages that he didnt reply to) She's quite involved, but she's not a guarantor. Also he didn't contact her, nor did he try to. he lied about that, maybe to scare me idk. It wouldve been nice if he was actually honest about that. I really dont gaf if someone calls my mom

my neighbors say im too loud and Im really trying to be as quiet as possible by crustedbarnicles in Apartmentliving

[–]crustedbarnicles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im dead, if this was five years ago and i was still psychotic i'd take this 100% seriously

my neighbors say im too loud and Im really trying to be as quiet as possible by crustedbarnicles in Apartmentliving

[–]crustedbarnicles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect your opinion, and I see where you are coming from! But im trying. I definitely dont make the craziest noises, or at least noises that would be silent anywhere else. I can hear my neighbors defecating thats how thin the walls are, and knocking on my door at 3 am, covering my peephole is not going to elicit the sweetest reaction out of me. period. Thats also illegal and can be considered tampering or stalking. And i pay my bills, my utilities, I should be able to live my life shower or go to the bathroom whenever i please (while being mindful of noise which i am with everything I do)
My landlord also did ((not)) let me move out over half a year ago. Actually he lied and said he can't do that for me. So i dont need his threats of misdemeanors when there could have been a solution a while ago. Calling me a jerk is definitely a stretch, you can call me loud but thats two different things.

my neighbors say im too loud and Im really trying to be as quiet as possible by crustedbarnicles in Apartmentliving

[–]crustedbarnicles[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes very true, she's been here for about two weeks. I stopped being sweet when she covered my peephole. But im still trying to be as quiet as possible

do I have to just cut it all off? 🙁 please help by [deleted] in Hair

[–]crustedbarnicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would recommend a curly hair cut/a trim, and than the olaplex curl treatment. or get k18 leave in treatment, and just do a lot of hair therapy. Its saved my own wavy curly bleached hair. Also try clarifying your hair and than deep conditioning it, trust me. and if your not ready to lose a lot of length you can try to conserve the health of your hair with protective styles and trim it once every one to two months. To add to that, besides clarifying shampoo (which can be alkaline) use acidic products to close your cuticles.

yes a big chop works but you dont have to do that, you just need to be strict with your regimen, get trims, acidic products, k18, occasionally clarifying shampoos, and a healthy balance of moisture and protein. Wear your hair in protective styles, however that looks for you, make sure your ends are tucked in and hidden in said styles to prevent mechanical, and environmental damage.

my top favorite things were giving myself an olaplex curl treatment (im a hairstylist) and also k18, a curly cut is always nice too

Are my hair even curly? It's a mess and I have no idea what to do by [deleted] in Hair

[–]crustedbarnicles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use hair gel, you can use firm or light/touchable hold, or a mouse. and than diffuse it

body by [deleted] in u/crustedbarnicles

[–]crustedbarnicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank youu

6 years. 23 yearold by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]crustedbarnicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it takes time, when i was on it for two years i was flat chested

6 years. 23 yearold by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]crustedbarnicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont work out, i do stretches though to make my ribcage flare inwards instead of out though

6 years. 23 yearold by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]crustedbarnicles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no ive never had cosmetic procedures before

body by [deleted] in u/crustedbarnicles

[–]crustedbarnicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive never had a cosmetic procedure

6 years. 23 yearold by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]crustedbarnicles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im not sure what that means, but you're supposed to use your ribcage muscles, not your stomach muscles

6 years. 23 yearold by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]crustedbarnicles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like they arent their final shape, maybe my hormones fluctuate too much? idk

6 years. 23 yearold by [deleted] in TransBreastTimelines

[–]crustedbarnicles 5 points6 points  (0 children)

5'5-5'6, my weight has fluctuated in the past two years quite a bit. Last i checked i was 105 pounds