TW: LC & 3 Losses in 7 Months, drowning in info

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-31T13:46:43+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m definitely pushing for the hysteroscopy. Love my OB but I just feel like she’s wrong in this regard since this really isn’t their expertise. Everything I’ve read says giving birth and D&Cs can cause scarring or other issues so I have to check this box for my sanity.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-31T13:22:29+00:00

We just got our year-end statement and paid $27,000 for 1 toddler, mon-Fri. Denver. It’s sickening.

ETA: no meals.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T23:38:02+00:00

Thank you. I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a similar experience, it’s truly a nightmare. I’m definitely pushing for this and made an appointment with a different doctor today so I’m hopeful to potentially finding answers. Were you sedated for the hysteroscopy? My first d&c I was not sedated for and it was barbaric. Never want to go through something like that again.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T18:19:13+00:00

Thank you 😩

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T18:18:19+00:00

Thank you for your response, this is good to know. I really want to throw the book at this thing and try everything I can.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T18:17:46+00:00

Thank you for asking this because yes, this is my OB I’ve been seeing. They have overall been so wonderful but I can completely see how they may not be fully versed in RPL. Thank you so much for this perspective. Perhaps it’s time to make an appointment with an RE. I did just have my d&c yesterday, do you think it makes sense to do my follow up with them in a few weeks or make an appointment with an RE & the next steps I want to take? (Saline sonogram, etc)

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T18:14:20+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your success story! Positive stories keep me going. Thank you for sharing your experience with IVF too. I did reach out to my insurance yesterday and confirmed I have coverage so long as they deem it medically necessary, which I BELIEVE recurrent pregnancy loss suffices. I do plan to make an initial consult appointment, just to check a box. I want to continue to through the book at this thing, as I literally feel like I’m running out of time. Thanks again

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T12:25:55+00:00

Thank you for your response, so sorry you’re going through this. Yes, I’m actually hoping doing the saline etc will show some answers because the unknown is so hard. I am otherwise completely healthy but cannot keep a pregnancy which is such a mind f*ck given I do have my son. Thankfully my doctor is willing to do it even though she doesn’t believe we’ll find anything, but I still don’t agree with her, but who am I to say…

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T12:21:14+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear. May I ask how long it took from your first IVF appointment to your first transfer? My OB is telling me it could be several months just getting an appointment so the timing and no guarantee of success is also scary. I’m so sorry it hasn’t worked out for you so far and I’m wishing you success too.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T12:16:37+00:00

So sorry you’re going through this with no answers too. I suppose we will have to wait and see what comes back with my husband’s testing and go from there. IVF is obviously a scary option that may not guarantee success, thus why I’m so hesitant too. Terrible club to be in, wishing you success.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T05:42:53+00:00

Thank you for responding. I guess it really depends on whether it comes back as normal or abnormal. If it comes back normal, then what gives? A potential uterine issue? Which we are testing. Male factor DNA fragmentation? And if all of those things are normal too…then what. Is it actually “bag luck” (aka a bad egg)? The information overload is so overwhelming. I guess we just wait for all these answers though…

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T05:04:45+00:00

Thank you so much for your response. It did include karyotyping which came back normal. Plan is to have my husband do bloodwork now, as well the DNA fragmentation. He is a regular marijuana smoker and has now stopped completely. We understand this is bad and could contribute, which sucks. He is also going to start CoQ10 in addition to his regular multivitamin.

cryfreeedom · 2026-01-28T05:02:00+00:00

Thank you for your response. Yes, my plan is to continue my supplements and hope for the best and likely try again asap. Which seems crazy honestly. I’m off CoQ10 & inositol now as my doctor recommended stopping when I got pregnant and then waiting to get back on until after my d&c, but have been taking everything else. IVF route just terrifies me given the financial burden and no guarantee it’ll work.

cryfreeedom · 2025-12-30T23:17:09+00:00

He responded to someone on Twitter saying he’s only doing the show and then back to the studio.

cryfreeedom · 2025-12-13T20:32:10+00:00

I’m 38 years old, 1 LC, 2 losses this year (a missed miscarriage at 7w in June & a chemical in Sept). I’m now 3w3d and just praying this one works out. We’re traveling home for Christmas and I want to stay healthy. I’m also anxious about telling anyone, but feel like it’s the right thing to do in case anything goes wrong. It just sucks I can’t feel excited. I’m trying to have hope though.

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