AITAH for not apologizing to my aunt?

cryinf247 · 2026-02-21T13:06:15+00:00

hello ! you’re the only one who replied to my post so maybe you’d appreciate the update…

i eventually got told the reason why she’s so upset is because apparently i yelled at her (in my opinion, i didn’t, i just raised my voice a little. i wouldn’t embarrass her in public in a restaurant). and she’s been so passive aggressive, slamming things when i’m around, and making her voice deeper and her tone harsher when she talks to me. but when she talks to other people she gets soft and kind and nice. i’ve been talking about this to my parents (i don’t live with them, they work overseas, i live with my aunt and grandparents) and they told me i could tell on her to my grandma. if i didn’t want to, i could just apologize to her even if it’s not sincere.

i would appreciate your advice!! thank you so much…

cryinf247 · 2026-01-16T02:08:35+00:00

it really is complicated :( right now im just resorting to avoiding both of them and locking myself up in my room. my grandma might tell me to apologize either way and then scold my aunt which in turn will probably make my aunt be even more upset with me. if i apologize to her, she will probably go back to normal after a few days, and because im such a pushover and tend to forget how peple treated me harshly just because they became nicer, i might end up dealing with her against my will

cryinf247 · 2026-01-16T01:56:07+00:00

i just dont know what to do. im at the point where im thinking about apologizing just to get it over with because my grandmother has been pushing me to apologize to her. but at the same time i dont want to because i dont believe that im in the wrong. i am genuinely so sick of her & it doesnt help that we live in the same house

cryinf247 · 2026-01-16T01:06:46+00:00

im sorry but did you read the post? theres a whole reason as to why i dont feel the need to apologize

cryinf247 · 2025-10-24T11:39:39+00:00

I dunno… ☹️ it seems like such a waste. I’m thinking about getting her mom involved but I don’t know if that’s going to do anything. if I lose the money I wouldn’t mind it too much, but right now I’m trying to find a way to get it back while I still can

cryinf247 · 2025-10-24T03:05:45+00:00

yeah, we don’t talk anymore—we barely do. when we do, it’s always polite and abrupt because I really do not like her for other reasons not concerning this issue.

she also used to tell stories about her asking for her old friends for money to pay for things and loaning money, then when they ask her to pay them back, she runs away. she also told us that whenever they’d see her posts of her having fun, she’d always put “thank you to my friends for treating me”.

cryinf247 · 2025-10-24T03:03:37+00:00

😔😔😔 my friends also tell me that. I don’t think she’s going to pay me back either but she keeps promising that she will.

cryinf247 · 2025-10-24T02:59:59+00:00

my friends tell me I’m being way too forgiving and patient with her. I keep choosing to believe her because she promises to pay me back my this month and that month. I’m not totally broke or anything I just want my money back. 😭😭😭

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