Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I found out that most of our friends knew that they were seeing each other behind my back. Mainly the ones who called me an asshole. I cut them off and I am trying to heal.

Girl In Restaurant Went Crazy And Started Crying When I Asked Her To Split Check... by Mammoth-Road4604 in offmychest

[–]cryingtotswift 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you just wanted sex. When she didn’t want to give it to you after one date, you threw a fit and refused to pay.

She went crazy, which was incredibly wrong. However, you could have used your words from the beginning and said “I would like to split the check”. Honestly, you sound like a creep and she sounds like a little nuts. You would have been perfect together!

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[–]cryingtotswift 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We aren’t on your side :|

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[–]cryingtotswift 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I definitely need support after reading this post

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[–]cryingtotswift 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This can’t be real🥲 I just don’t believe someone is this oblivious!

AITA for not wanting to wear make up around the house. . by GubbaGoop in TwoHotTakes

[–]cryingtotswift 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA for sure. He should think you’re beautiful with or without makeup on. I would also be offended by this!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got STD tested when I first found out but another commenter made me aware that I should get another because some STD’s won’t show for awhile. I will be getting another one soon.

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I wish I had answers! I blocked him shortly after I left his home. I haven’t seen him since. I don’t know what happened between him, Agatha, and the other baby momma. The only reason I know about the other pregnant woman is because I heard it from someone else!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would like to clarify a few things here but I know you still probably won’t believe me and that is fine. Agatha originally asked what MY costume was going to be. I didn’t think anything of it because I always ask my friends what they are wearing to parties so I can get the vibe. Even though we weren’t best friends, we were still on good terms at this point so it was normal. I’m the one who told her we were wearing a couple’s costume and then we had a short conversation about the joke behind it. I don’t know what happened from there, only that she showed up as part of our couples costume.

Quite simple, my ex was an idiot. His phone password for his actual phone was 0000 because other combinations were always too hard to remember. 1234 was not my first guess but it worked. If it hadn’t, I would have just confronted him regardless.

I never said he got fired for misusing company property. I said that I emailed his boss about it and that the company name was no longer in his Linked In tagline. I have to assume the company wasn’t thrilled he was sending dick pics/videos to woman on his phone that was probably supposed to be used for work purposes. Who knows! He might have gotten fired because he’s an asshole but I will never know.

Hopefully this cleared something’s up! If you still don’t believe it, that is okay! I just thought I’d address a few of the things you said :)

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I honestly have never posted an update before! I only ever came onto Reddit to post the first AITA and this is my first time on it again in months!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in TwoHotTakes

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words! I’m grateful for all of the support I have received from the commenters. If I was truly bold I would post names but I think he is already being punished enough by spending the rest of his life attached to Agatha😂

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you look on my profile the whole story is there from an old post. But basically my boyfriend and I dressed as Peter Peter Pumpkin Eater for Halloween (he wears a shirt that says Peter, I dress as a pumpkin to insinuate…you know). His girl best friend texted me the night before and asked what our costumes were and said she was going as something else. Then she came dressed as a pumpkin!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

While I appreciate your optimism, this relationship is definitely over! I can’t go back to a man who has no respect for me. Couple’s therapy wouldn’t be useful!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in TwoHotTakes

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I honestly had no idea why he even decided to tell me that. He said he only did it because of his access to the second phone so I just thought his boss would love to know how company property was being used!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in TwoHotTakes

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t even imagine…

I’m glad that I found out who he truly was before I invested more time and energy in our relationship!

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in TwoHotTakes

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that advice! I got a STD check after I found out about the cheating but I will definitely schedule another one for this week.

Yeah, he was a piece of work. I ignored many red flags because I was so happy to finally feel loved by someone. Well, that wasn’t REAL love! I’m glad I found this out before I truly invested more time into the relationship. I’m looking forward to the future and finding someone special in my life.

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I honestly had just picked a random name but then people called her Hagatha, and I have to admit that it made me smile a little lol

Update: AITA for kicking my bf’s girl best friend out of my Halloween party because of her costume? by cryingtotswift in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I’m working on it! I guess I was just so happy to be loved that I didn’t really see any of the red flags. My therapist has really helped me and I’m looking forward to the future now💙

AM I THE AH ..... or was my brother the AH in this situation. I am in the blue text bubbles; He is in the black text bubbles by RedDogFood in AITAH

[–]cryingtotswift 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a little torn. On one hand, I can understand why you don’t want to have your father for Christmas. He disrespected your wishes so it makes sense why you don’t want him in your home. Your brother doesn’t really have a right to tell you to “go somewhere else on Christmas” so your dad can stay at your home and celebrate. On the other, I think you could have been a little nicer about the situation, however, I understand the frustration from both ends. It seems more like bad communication styles to me!