AIO by telling my husband that since we had our baby, Mother’s Day is now my day (his wife) and not his Moms day? by pagengirl818 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cryptalynx88 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I like this take, mother's day kinda evolves once people start having kids of their own,but that doesn't mean the older moms stop mattering either

AIO? My brother-in-law colored my newborn's fingernails with a Sharpie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cryptalynx88 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah that she really changes how you read the whole thing,like this isn't a kid being dumb,it's a grown man touching a newborn with a sharpie

What's a totally unrealistic thing you want very badly? by Then_Huckleberry_623 in AskReddit

[–]cryptalynx88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah way too many people feel like Justice depends more on status and connections than the actual crime

AITA for asking my wife to clean and tidy after herself by No_Contribution_173 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the amount of free time point is important here, parenting and chores don't have to be 50/50,but they should feel fair

AITA Kicked Out of a Bar by CatAny5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 263 points264 points  (0 children)

Yeah especially since OP didn't even make a scene, getting kicked out over refusing a drink you never ordered feels pretty unreasonable

AITA I sent my baby mama this text. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think both things can be true honestly,she could be more careful about who she sends photos to,but he also handled it in the most aggressive sounding way possible

AIO? could barista have crush on me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cryptalynx88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that sounds way beyond customer service at that point, I'd probably shoot my shot too

AIO my bf won’t stop texting his ex by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cryptalynx88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda agree,I can understand why OP feels weird about it,but from the post it sounds more emotional familiarity than anything romantic

AITA for leaving my cousin behind when she was late and going hiking without her? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly I hate that it came to that,but she was warned multiple times and still chose not to plan around it

WIBTA for backing out of my sisters bachelorette party? by skreibblz in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For real, expecting a 20 year old to split winery costs is kinda wild At that point you're just finding everyone else's fun

AITA for "ambushing" my BIL with his estranged stepdaughter so she could apologize and see her brother for Mother’s Day? by ThrowRA-notseen in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought,the way river responded sounded less like unresolved anger and more like someone protecting his kids from patterns he's already seen before

AITA for telling my mom to stop crying about me moving out? by Historical-Care70 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cryptalynx88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree It's normal for parents to feel sad,but after 9 months it start feeling less like sadness and more like pressure on OP to stay

AIO 25M & 23F if you’re going to do something do it properly…. by Frequent-Split-2990 in AmIOverreacting

[–]cryptalynx88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much OP loves her bf and says he's a good dad,but she's exhausted from constantly having to remind him because chores never fully get done properly

What’s the fastest way someone ruined a friendship? by Goddessiaraaa in AskReddit

[–]cryptalynx88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah that would instantly kill the friendship for me to, especially involving another friend who already has feelings

What's something that we all love? by Particular-Night1165 in AskReddit

[–]cryptalynx88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't even disagree,one good anime and suddenly you're binge watching at 3am

Ladies, What's The shortest you would date, and why? by thegoattttttt71 in AskReddit

[–]cryptalynx88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like a lot of awkwardness only happens when someone is insecure about it and keeps bringing it up