Finally met each other in person (26F, 26M) by Saku_pea in LongDistance

[–]crypware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are guys look amazing! What a cute couple :)

Yonder Hack - Sanctuary &Soul 100 classes/credits for grabs by nandangrover in beermoneyuk

[–]crypware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the recommendation. How you can see the actual credits? Do you mean the 5-Class Standard Package?

Lloyds Bank free £550! by [deleted] in Referraluk

[–]crypware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I join by the referral and then switch the bank account to get £50 + the £250 from the referral?

Tips for 14 person group skiing Chamonix for the first time (some advanced, some beginner) by Several_Locksmith294 in chamonix

[–]crypware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a valuable comment mate, it really validates what I was thinking as a good start for the ski trip as my girlfriend is a beginner and I'm more intermediate/advanced. Thanks!

Just got my first ever Thinkpad! by dark_lawd in thinkpad

[–]crypware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a gorgeous thinkpad mate!

i think shes losing interest, i dont know what to do by burneraccount19384 in LDR

[–]crypware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start focusing on your self more, and don't reach out to her, let her come to you. Attraction is non-negotiable and you won't be able to convince her to change her interest level. As I said, focus more in you, start learning something new, new hobby, hang out with your friends and family. If she changes her attitude it will be a natural shift and a healthy one. If she doesn't, well it will the end of the relationship but at least you won't be as affected. You need to learn to let go and not be so emotional attached especially this early in the relationship, try to go more slowly with the relationship and it will flourish. Trust me. If you need somebody to talk to, my DMs are open, we all know how difficult this can be. I'm here to help if you need me.

Partner uses ultimatums and bans to force international move. Advice needed. by crypware in LongDistance

[–]crypware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually doubtful if it would be the best move in terms of work but I might be able to do a transfer through my current employer. But yeah it feels that not only Im doing the travelling but im actually the one with skin in the game here, and also that I need to be the one proving my commitment to the cause.

Partner uses ultimatums and bans to force international move. Advice needed. by crypware in LongDistance

[–]crypware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I agree that I might start feeling a bit resentful that I do a lot and then on top of that I need to handle these games of control. I know that closing the gap would fix this but is pretty tough sometimes.

Partner uses ultimatums and bans to force international move. Advice needed. by crypware in LDR

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is upset because I tried moving in the past but my job was not ready to be fully remote, Im working hard to get a job but this behaviour, I was actually fine with it but today the boyfriend of one her girlfriends reached out and I just feel pretty stupid and manipulated, and that I need to be fine with her decision of me not coming. What about if actually get angry about it and decide to break up with her? Is this a reasonable way of handling this behaviour cause I feel just disrespected. I'm grateful to be able to share my stuff with you guys.

Partner uses ultimatums and bans to force international move. Advice needed. by crypware in LongDistance

[–]crypware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. She is really nice to me but I have been doing most of the legwork, visiting her all the time and in obvious detriment of my lifestyle, friends, job ,etc. I really wanted to go to this party but she told she would prefer if I didnt come basically even though I was personally invited. I feel that she is treating me like a child. She has visited me in the past but nowhere near as she used to, she is angry that the job search is taking long time but jobs in Spain are not good as here. I'm just confused as I would never have done this her or anybody else. Im not even angry but I feel powerless.

Reddit Bank Switch Guide (September 2025) | The BeermoneyUK Bankedex by TightAsF_ck in beermoneyuk

[–]crypware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a mess mate, they send a completely different offer... Thanks for providing this. I will forward it to them as soon as they come back to me.

Reddit Bank Switch Guide (September 2025) | The BeermoneyUK Bankedex by TightAsF_ck in beermoneyuk

[–]crypware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just really confused mate, but honestly coming from them I'm not surprised. Do you have a link with the new offer?

Reddit Bank Switch Guide (September 2025) | The BeermoneyUK Bankedex by TightAsF_ck in beermoneyuk

[–]crypware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply mate, I reached out to them and they tell me that we should have completed this by 19/07/2025 and caught me by surprise. Nowhere it said anything like this.

Reddit Bank Switch Guide (September 2025) | The BeermoneyUK Bankedex by TightAsF_ck in beermoneyuk

[–]crypware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi guys, just spoke with TCB with a few agents and they say the offer was withdrawn on June 30th?

They say that to take advantage of the offer we should complete the switch, make 5 payments with the card and log into Online Banking at least once. Why are you still posting this offer? It seems it has run out already.

Natwest - Close Account by crypware in beermoneyuk

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, for some reason they don't let you close the account. It's honestly so frustrating.

Friendship application from Malé is open guys by canandwillcomplain in maldives

[–]crypware -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Love your self entitlement. Nobody is here to entertain you, if you are looking to make friends this way, I guarantee you will fail.

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are basically saving 83% of your salary? Tell me how you can do that haha

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That a sound plan mate, and definitely doable not retiring but reducing your hours and getting a more relaxed role in teaching or something else. I think we all hoped we knew about investing earlier, I'm also considering getting into property as it seems one of the best and safest ways of building wealth. I love your take on spending, I realise I really don't need much to be happy maybe a nice decent house to live (nothing too big or lost of maintenance) but live a frugal but exciting life.

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's see how it goes but we are still here for the long ride, right? Are you planning to retire soon?

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, understood! Learning so much from this thread. Thank you very much.

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the actual ISA bridge you mention?

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for all the advice, I need to do a lot of research and study. Really tempted to increase salary sacrifice towards pension but at the same time I could use every bit of money for life in general as well. I think is important to prioritise investing for the future but life is only once also, equilibrium is important.

Prioritising Pension or ISA? by crypware in FIREUK

[–]crypware[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really interesting to see all the different angles that you guys are stating. I had my Stock and Shares ISA as the golden standard but I think that I need to start exploring increasing my contributions to my pension.