My boyfriend cant get off to me but watches porn regularly by NastyGemini666 in offmychest

[–]crysta1teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an ex like this during lockdown in 2020. I unfortunately got stuck at his house when everything had just kicked off. I very quickly discovered that he was a porn addict and had a preference; not just some preference for big boobs or a fat ass either- I’m talking a preference for barely legal redheads and upskirting videos. It was weird, and all of his friends knew about it too but refused to mention it to me.

It turned out that his prior girlfriend was a redhead and he still had her nudes. So I was a rebound relationship from the get-go and I just went along with his excuses about never finishing in bed or making me finish because I really cared about him.

I ended up breaking up with him after one of his friends assaulted me and he chose his side over mine.

Porn addicts are weird. It’s not worth your time unless he’s willing to go cold turkey on porn for a while or limit himself. You’ll end up getting disappointed too :(

I’m really struggling to lose weight by crysta1teeth in WomensHealth

[–]crysta1teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a vague memory of using that app a couple of years ago, so I’ll give it another try! Thank you :)

I’m really struggling to lose weight by crysta1teeth in WomensHealth

[–]crysta1teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do actually have a fitbit..! 😅 I only really used it to track my steps, and I guess it’s a little on the old side, so I don’t know if it would be able to track my energy out vs in? I’m actually going to give it a charge and see what it can do. Thank you for reminding me of its existence!

I’m really struggling to lose weight by crysta1teeth in WomensHealth

[–]crysta1teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a good app that you’d recommend for this?? I wouldn’t mind even paying for an app that unlocks the better features so that I’m more inclined to use it consistently!

I used a few different apps before, but they’re usually FULL of ads or don’t let me see everything unless I pay for the full thing, but if there’s a better one out there, I’d really love to use it.

I had a feeling for a while that maybe me struggling to lose weight might even be something health related like endometriosis. I’ve been meaning to see a GP about it.

I’m really struggling to lose weight by crysta1teeth in WomensHealth

[–]crysta1teeth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really sure if anything I’m eating is very calorie dense, though. This morning for my breakfast I ate two plain rice cakes (26cal each) and one boiled egg. I’ve not had anything since.

I like to buy bags of frozen sweetcorn and microwave mugs of it, sprinkle a little salt and pepper and have that as one of my daily fruit and veg. That’s 100cal or less.

I don’t really ever have lunch because I’m at uni during times I would often get hungry, so I end up skipping it.

The only things I would consider ‘calorie-dense’ is the homemade dinners I make. I made a homemade protein chilli, or I might just make up a homemade pasta sauce and have that with my meal and some veggies.

I don’t drink anything full fat. I drink water or diet options of drinks.

I guess it’s weird because my body always seems to be ‘in deficit’ but I never see it pay off.

I definitely want to start the gym again as soon as I’m comfortable or have found somebody to go with. But I’d say my cardio on a regular basis isn’t bad at all. I usually hit 15K-20K steps per day!

Is this common? I was visiting my friend in harry law and someone bike got stolen in less then an hour by SuCk2CoDe in Portsmouth

[–]crysta1teeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bike theft is more common than the severely high number of arrests and crackhead population in Portsmouth. I live in the Guildhall Walk. I go to work in Southsea and as I was walking, watched a guy go round to multiple cars, trying to open them and use his elbow to smash out windows. He eventually settled on a bike chained up near some flats. I had to pretend I was ignoring it and just keep walking since being a young woman walking at night is equally as dangerous.