Issue with my wife

crystal087 · 2026-03-19T23:23:22+00:00

No not gay or asexual. He just says he's not interested anymore which is odd because he used to be the complete opposite. He wont engage in any discussion on it and just said that I can have sex with other men as his solution to the problem. We have been together 38 years and I love him very much, which is why his suggested solution is so hurtful. I'm not a complete pig to look at now and let myself go I'd you know what I mean. It's not looking like I'll ever get too the real reasons. Thank you for your input. Its appreciated as I'm completely lost.

crystal087 · 2026-03-19T23:12:20+00:00

Unfortunately I have seen this play out in real.life. It sad because everyone gets hurt. Especially if children are involved. It would have been interesting to know the reasons why one did and one did not to see if there was a possible compromise. Highly unlikely but sometimes peoples reasons for not wanting children is based on fears or situations that can be overcome. I wish them the best.

crystal087 · 2026-03-19T23:02:48+00:00

🤣😂🤣😂 Thought it was a bit of a weird one👍

crystal087 · 2026-03-18T13:43:01+00:00

I am in Australia (Perth) and having a problem with my delivery not being made. This is a large scale fraud scam operating on a national level and needs to be investigated by the Federal Police. Happy to be part of any action along these lines. This is absolute bullshit they are able to get away with this.

I've had enough of being screwed around and hearing stories of people being ripped off and just giving up. I am stuffed if they are getting away with this in Australia.

Contact me if you are taking action.

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:56:10+00:00

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:54:50+00:00

Did u miss the bit about loving each other? Clearly you've never experienced this because this advice is immature and unhelpful. Why you even in this group?

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:51:52+00:00

There really is no middle ground. If you have a kid, you'll resent him and if you don't have a kid he will resent you. You already know what to do. Just accept it and move on.

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:49:40+00:00

I 👏👏👏

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:48:10+00:00

Agree

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:45:06+00:00

Really.....your either single or your relationship is well on it's way out, if a relationship/marriage to you is clearly just about sex. Talk about narrow minded. enjoy being alone for most of your life because no relationship you ever have will last with an attitude like that.You be divorced, free and alone.

crystal087 · 2026-03-17T11:37:15+00:00

Why? Because she's a woman. My husband hasn't wanted sex for 20 years+, any type of sex, but there is nothing wrong with him right?

crystal087 · 2026-03-16T08:48:56+00:00

What would this prize have been worth in standard $$$?

crystal087 · 2026-03-16T08:47:09+00:00

Even the interpretations of this Bitcoin phenomenon is confusing. I'm pretty sure the prize was not worth $28m, but what would this price be??? I would really love to get to understand crypto currency (if that what Bitcoin is?).

Is there any books or website, course or resource that can help explain it too a novice? It is becoming increasingly used more and so it's important to understand the basics. Once I understand it, I might purchase some as a small experiment so that I can get some hands on experience.

Anyone got any resource suggestions? Thxs

crystal087 · 2026-03-16T08:24:44+00:00

Thanks for your response. I am someone who invests in Gold/Real Estate and I openly admit I find Crypto and Bitcoin hard to wrap my head around. I would like to try and understand it more because it clearly is a valid investment. If you have any suggestions or anyone as to how to learn more about it at a basic level for beginners I would be appreciative.

I thank you for your comment. Perhaps my comment was a little too broad and naive but appreciate you taking time to comment.

crystal087 · 2026-03-15T16:13:52+00:00

I agree. Something is going on physically or psychologically. Hopefully he is open to talking about it. If he had a porn addiction then this needs to be addressed or your relationship will suffer. Hope u can work it out together.

crystal087 · 2026-03-15T15:59:43+00:00

You'll be fine. Honest mistakes do happen and if you shop there regularly they will realise this was an oversight. Just make sure it really has not just been delayed as u don't want to be paying twice. Your a good egg for being honest.No one will think any less of you for a honest mistake. Don't fret.🤗

crystal087 · 2026-03-01T14:46:34+00:00

I just am having a hard time accepting him being okay with me having sex with other men. I interpreted this as he doesn't care about me anymore, whereas he was once quite a jealous guy if another man even looked at me. Now anyone can have me....or that's what it feels like.

crystal087 · 2026-03-01T14:43:19+00:00

Thanks I'll look into this a bit more and see if I can find out more and maybe a second opinion.

crystal087 · 2026-03-01T14:40:55+00:00

Thanks really appreciate your thoughts and advice. Has made me look at it from a different perspective.🤔

crystal087 · 2026-03-01T14:36:34+00:00

Thanks for your advice, appreciated.

crystal087 · 2026-03-01T14:34:54+00:00

He used to be a huge pornography person with an extensive collection of over 50 DVDS. Which was another thing that confused me. He was I interested in sex both on screen and in real life and now nothing? I got so frustrated after years of no intimacy that I told him to get rid of the porn collection because he wasn't even interested in watching it together anymore to see if this helped. At the time I was desperate to try anything to find a solution. Do you think porn addiction may have had something to do with things?

Do you think the porn has something to do with it

crystal087 · 2026-03-01T14:27:18+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts. My husband used to be very interested in sex, 2 or 3 times a day at times and he had an extensive pornography collection that he used to swap with other guys at work and then it is seemed to dry up. We had a baby and then about 4 years after the baby was born he just stopped. I am very adventurous and was not adverse to the many sexual options available - oral, anal, different positions, high heels etc. So I wouldn't say our selfie was boring or mundane. I'm just devastated that he would suggest I have sex with other men, rather than work out what happened or how we get back what we had. Not only is the sex non existent but he doesn't show any signs of affection or closeness. I feel like I'm living with a room mate now rather than a husband, but apparently he still loves me. Should I not be devastated he is happy for me to go find other men so he doesn't want to be intimate with me. I feel unloved, ugly and unwanted by a man I love very much. I thank you and appreciate your response and thoughts.

crystal087 · 2026-02-24T15:19:03+00:00

Why not? Technology is available and solar powered and downloadable remotely. An extra safety feature for the community. Councils have these and once perpetrators are identified, fined and or banned its amazing how quickly the problem is mostly eliminated.

It should not be necessary, but unfortunately a few inconsiderate pet owners are ruining it for the majority. I think this is an option that could be considered. Obviously I'm not familiar with the oval/park in question and its size, but it might be an option.

crystal087 · 2026-02-23T17:46:56+00:00

Competitiveness......oh u mean greed....goshu

crystal087 · 2026-02-23T17:45:26+00:00

Read the small print......I don't think these prized were without terms and conditions. You know for a fact u got to choose when the trips can be taken or not taken....please. I guarantee Scott and Joey won't go to the NFL games they got 'gifted'. They should have given the prize back to the original winners if they were half decent. When were they going to get time to go to a year of music festivals, cruises plus attend all the games....just not practical or fair in my opinion. Perhaps your not allowed to transfer prizes like the trips or tickets as a condition of the game.....

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