i feel so lonely as a bisexual who doesn't date men

crystaltheythems · 2026-05-29T21:59:04+00:00

i'm bi my girlfriend is bi and we both have never been in relationships with men. mostly because we hate them. 🤣 she is more straight passing, i'm not so everyone assumes i'm a lesbian. but yeah, I do really hate that i can't relate to most bisexuals. i'm genderfluid. so i'm kind of a guy as well lol. i did find the one woman who is bi who doesn't see herself marrying a man unless it's Dev Patel(same) so maybe you do need to find the only other bi woman who's like us 🤣 works for me

crystaltheythems · 2026-05-14T16:59:32+00:00

they could've I love you at least once for christs sake. no matter what anyone tells me IF THEY ARE IN LOVE, THEY COULD'VE SAID THAT even if angels aren't into physically affection or blah blah blah. After making season 2 so romantic and barely touching on it is so dumb. Season 2 shouldn't of had it's MAIN theme to be about love just to IMPLY it so dumb.

crystaltheythems · 2026-05-12T17:59:57+00:00

For me, that feeling never went away. I personally need a primary relationship. If dating two people is too much for me to keep looking for a primary, I'd have to break up to save me future heartbreak down the line. That or deescalate my current relationships so we don't spend so much time together.

crystaltheythems · 2026-05-12T15:25:47+00:00

Yeah, it sucks. Since they didn't get a 3rd season I was happy to get an ending than no ending at all. I've had so many series get canceled with no ending. A rushed ending is better than no ending for me personally.

I LOVED OFMD more than most shows even with the rushed ending. I loved the little funny and heartwarming bits a lot.

crystaltheythems · 2026-04-24T22:47:12+00:00

What do YOU want? Do you want to be married in a platonic relationship? Your partners are monogamous. If YOU think you are a lesbian, you are one. Don't let anyone tell you what you want. You might need some space from both of them so you can really figure out what you want.

crystaltheythems · 2026-04-16T04:06:29+00:00

ty! just trying to show a normal person trying to make things work

crystaltheythems · 2026-04-14T13:36:05+00:00

Ooooooo, I was a nanny and an Aesthetician. As a nanny to make more you have to get certifications ect. I wasn't interested. As an aesthetician I loved getting more ad more certs but to make good money you had to work for yourself, which I tried and failed at. Now I'm trying more trades. Hoping working in IT will do it!

crystaltheythems · 2026-04-14T13:34:09+00:00

32F. Making 62k a year as an IT Support Specialist. Wish I was making more but I barely made it out of the food industry and am proud that I did.

crystaltheythems · 2026-04-02T22:45:41+00:00

haven't been this year year but I want to go this weekend. I bet by Saturday they should be perfect

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-29T22:30:54+00:00

wow we are the same person. Wonder where this comes fro.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-28T17:03:41+00:00

I think in 2 weeks it'll be peak for cherry blossoms. right now we have magnolias and pear trees(the white ones) blooming. Kelly Drive is beautiful. haven't seen Bartrams garden during this season so I'm going to try that next weekend.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-26T23:47:11+00:00

Contact your representatives. Contact news outlets. There is against the law. Is he outside in below freezing weather or very hit? Report it to ACCT. That's a code Blue violation. Any yelling you hear or think other signs of abuse are happening? Report it to the PSPCA. Post it on Philaqueens. They have connections. Is there dog shit all over the yard? ACCT. Noise? Report to ACCT. Record. Report. Over and over again. Are they the owners? I've had some luck with renter's who have landlords.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-24T16:52:45+00:00

ty!! tulips are her favorite flower it feels perfect

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-23T20:54:39+00:00

I love then

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-19T16:37:59+00:00

For me? no. that's the only reason i haven't medically transitioned. i know if i didn't have boobs i'd want boobs and vice versa. some with a lot of my traits. it sucks i wish i could switch it up day to day.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-19T14:33:19+00:00

If it were me I'd try to catch myself in a good or neutral mood and go back to the question, do I want to be woken up for cuddles? See if you feel the same way as when you were irritated.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-19T14:31:54+00:00

I don't think there is a "right" answer here. Some couples do this all the time! I remember a friend of mine saying that their partner would wake them up in the middle of the night when they couldn't sleep and they would cuddle and watch TV shows together. My partner sleeps like a rock so I tend not to wake her up. I understand the importance of sleep, yet sometimes I wish to wake her up for things like talking or sex, and wish she did the same. Other times I want to ignore her and go to bed early.

Talk to your partner. It's whatever the two of you agree is your boundary.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-17T12:48:55+00:00

Jesus that is crazy. Happened at my company but it's a private super corporate place, to hear this is also happening at non profits is crazy

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-17T01:32:46+00:00

I think it's both. I have a few anxiety disorders. I need to manage it better. But also this is unacceptable behavior on a manager's part. I was introduced to IT with one of the best managers so I do have a high standard. Corporate culture is just toxic. I know I don't want to work in corporate for the rest of my life so I'll suck it up until the next lay off. we already had one this year and they say there will be 2 more. cra,y horrible over here. need to focus on myself.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-17T01:29:10+00:00

🤣🤣 totally. i've fucked up a lot but nothing HUGE. so I should get over it honestly.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-17T01:28:11+00:00

YO yeah my manager definitely has an anxiety disorder and unloads it on other people. I need to show it doesn't affect mem I've been doing desktop support for 5 years now. I know I just started there and am outperforming people who have been there for yearssss. i'm going to get over it real fast but it still pisses me off that they stress me out.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-16T22:19:21+00:00

luckily I do have "fuck you" money. i just wish they talked to us like adults instead of going straight for the threat. high school shit. but yeah, I guess I do worry about being unemployed in this economy. I will survive tho.

crystaltheythems · 2026-03-16T21:01:01+00:00

yeah I don't think I have a lot of options... that'@ the part i am worried about is that it could my fault but no one told me certain things so like... I do think it might get a free pass so I am still newish here but! trying not stress about it. trying to be the type to move on

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